Gender expectations, like other
social norms, can vary widely by culture. A person may be seen as expressing an atypical
gender role when their
gender expression and activities differ from those usually expected in that culture. What is typical for one culture may be atypical for another. People from cultures who conceptualize gender as polar opposites on a binary, or having only two options, may see cultures with
third gender people, or fluid gender expressions, and the people who live in these gender roles, as atypical. Gender expressions that
some cultures might consider atypical could include: •
Househusbands: men from
patriarchal cultures who stay at home to raise children and take care of the home while their partner goes to work.
National Public Radio reported that by 2015 this had risen to around 12.6% of heterosexual marriages. This would only be atypical in a culture where it is the norm for women to stay home. •
Androgynous people: having a gender presentation that is either mixed or neutral in a culture that prizes polarised (binary) presentations. •
Femminiello: a population of people who embody a third gender role in traditional Neapolitan culture (southern Italy). •
Hijra: a traditional third-gender person who is occasionally intersex, but most often considered male at birth. Many of the Hijra are
eunuchs who have chosen to be ritually castrated in a dedication ceremony. They have a ceremonial role in several traditional South Asian cultures, often performing naming ceremonies and blessings. They dress in what is considered women's garments for that culture, but are seen as neither men nor women, but
hijra. •
Khanith: an effeminate gay male in
Omani culture who is allowed to associate with women. The clothing of these individuals must be intermediate between that of a male and a female. •
Two-spirit: a modern,
pan-Indian,
umbrella term used by some
Indigenous North Americans to describe Native people in their communities who fulfill a traditional
third-gender (or other gender-variant) social and ceremonial role in their cultures. The term
two-spirit was created in 1990 at the Indigenous
lesbian and
gay international gathering in
Winnipeg, and "specifically chosen to distinguish and distance Native American/First Nations people from non-Native peoples." == Recovery strategies ==