There was family property at
Staplehurst, a village in the
Weald country of Kent south of
Maidstone. Hoare was on good terms with the rector there from 1826, Thomas Waldron Hornbuckle (died 1848), a Fellow of St John's College, Cambridge. At this period much of his grandfather's fortune was tied up in the London brewery in
East Smithfield run by his uncle,
George Matthew Hoare. He began to build a family home just outside Staplehurst: by 1868 Staplehurst Place was described as a "fine timber mansion". He started living at Staplehurst shortly before his marriage of 1836, close to his brother William at Ashurst Park near
Tunbridge Wells. Hoare was
High Sheriff of Kent in 1842. He became a partner in Hoare's Bank, of
Fleet Street, London, in 1845, remaining until 1865. In 1864 Hoare laid the foundation stone of the new chapel built for St John's College by
George Gilbert Scott. He had friends in his old college,
William Henry Bateson and
George Fearns Reyner, but his presence was fortuitous,
Lord Powis being unable to come. It resulted in a proposal to add a tower to the chapel. Over objections from
George Bonney, the College agreed to an instalment plan under which Hoare would fund the tower, in five annual payments. After being injured in a rail accident in March 1865, Hoare died on 16 April 1866, at
Staplehurst. The chapel tower plan was financed for only 40% of the cost, when Henry Hoare the younger, the heir, wished the remainder to be conditional on the sale to him by the College of the
advowson of Staplehurst, which the College would not countenance. Reyner retired to the living: the heir had wished to present it to his clerical brother, Walter Marsham Hoare. ==Lay co-operation==