Hymen was mentioned in
Euripides's
The Trojan Women in which
Cassandra says: Hymen is also mentioned in
Virgil's
Aeneid and in seven plays by
William Shakespeare:
Hamlet,
The Tempest,
Much Ado about Nothing,
Titus Andronicus,
Pericles, Prince of Tyre,
Timon of Athens and
As You Like It, where he joins the couples at the end — Hymen also appears in the work of the 7th- to 6th-century BCE Greek poet
Sappho (translation:
M. L. West,
Greek Lyric Poetry, Oxford University Press): Hymen is most commonly the son of
Apollo and one of the
Muses,
Clio or
Calliope or
Urania or
Terpsichore. In
Seneca's play
Medea, he is stated to be the son of
Dionysus.
Servius calls him the son of Dionysus by
Aphrodite. Other stories give Hymen a legendary origin. In one of the surviving fragments of the
Megalai Ehoiai attributed to
Hesiod, it's told that
Magnes "had a son of remarkable beauty, Hymenaeus. And when Apollo saw the boy, he was seized with love for him, and wouldn't leave the house of Magnes".
Aristophanes'
Peace ends with Trygaeus and the Chorus singing the wedding song, with the repeated phrase "Oh Hymen! Oh Hymenaeus!", a typical refrain for a wedding song. According to
Athenaeus,
Likymnios of Chios, in his
Dithyrambics, says that Hymenaeus was the
erastes of
Argynnus, a boy from
Boeotia.
Maurus Servius Honoratus, in his commentaries on
Virgil's
Eclogues, mentions that
Hesperus, the Evening Star, inhabited
Mount Oeta in
Thessaly and that there he had loved the young Hymenaeus, son of
Apollo with a similar singing voice, which he was said to have lost at the wedding of
Dionysus and
Ariadne.
Later story of origin According to a later romance, Hymen was an Athenian youth of great beauty but low birth who fell in love with the daughter of one of the city's wealthiest women. Since he could not speak to her or court her because of his social standing, he instead followed her wherever she went. Hymen
disguised himself as a woman in order to join one of those processions, a
religious rite at Eleusis in which only women went. The assemblage was captured by pirates, Hymen included. He encouraged the women and plotted strategy with them, and together, they killed their captors. He then agreed with the women to go back to
Athens and win their freedom if he were allowed to marry one of them. He thus succeeded in both the mission and the marriage, and his marriage was so happy that Athenians instituted festivals in his honour, and he came to be associated with marriage. == In popular culture ==