Thomas was reported to have entered a romantic relationship with billionaire investor
Peter Thiel at the onset of the
COVID-19 pandemic. The relationship was described by some reports as financially unequal; Thomas referred to himself as being "kept", citing gifts such as a $300,000 car and a luxury home. Thomas said he knew Thiel supported the Republicans and Thomas disliked that, but as his father was also Republican who was from Texas, he felt he could reach to people with opposing views from his. Another politician whom Thomas criticized was
Blake Masters, who was anti-gay according to Thomas. Thomas tried to dissuade Thiel from his increasingly aggressive pursuit of a
culture war, which Thomas felt was hurting the LGBTQ+ community. Shortly before his death, Thomas decided to work with Democratic researchers to push Thiel out of politics. He was approached in October 2022 by operatives linked to Democratic opposition researcher Jack Bury, a protégé and associate of
David Brock. Bury was leading a donor-funded effort to gather damaging personal intel on Thiel in hopes of diminishing his political influence before the midterms. Bury's associate Ryan Kenney arranged a meeting at
The Beverly Hills Hotel. On November 4, 2022, Bury texted Thomas directly about the ongoing work of
Intercept reporter
Ryan Grim concerning Thiel and Thomas: "Ryan [Grim] proposed at least having a conversation with him about what you're comfortable with having printed [...] being offered the option to approve a reporter's final draft beforehand is super rare [...] But I pushed for that because I like you & I didn't want you to be caught off guard. Your name will be in print anyway, so why not control it and be protected?". After a lunch meeting, Thomas was persuaded to cooperate. But over the time, Thomas reportedly became emotionally conflicted about the collaboration and distraught about the possibility of having his name appear in the news. At the time, Thomas' friends as well as some of his Republican family members had advised him not to talk, while Thiel encouraged him to move to Miami to escape the media scrutiny after hearing him speak about it. ==Death==