Born on May 2, 1860, in
Sacramento, California, Fassett was the daughter of the California Supreme Court Justice
Edwin B. Crocker and Margaret Rhodes Crocker. Her younger sister was the notorious Bohemian
Aimée Crocker. She married lawyer and politician
Jacob Sloat Fassett in 1879 and the couple moved to his hometown of Elmira, New York. They were frequent travelers and were among the first people from the west to enter the
Royal Court of Korea, visiting there in 1912. She and her husband had a
Queen Anne style house, designed by Robert Bickford, built for the family. After her husband's death, she had the large house, called the Strathmont mansion, renovated into separate living spaces for herself and her secretary and his wife. She received an honorary degree from
Elmira College. The Doctor of Humane Letters was awarded in 1933. She died on November 17, 1939 in
Katonah, New York. ==Philanthropy==