Gray was married to Henrietta Pauline "Etta" Gunther (1848–1883), a daughter of William Henry Gunther. Before her death in 1883, they were the parents of five children: They divorced and she married Thomas Franklin Witherspoon in 1906. a Deputy District Attorney in New York County under
William T. Jerome; he married Edith Florence Deacon, daughter of
Edward Parker Deacon and sister of
Gladys Spencer-Churchill, Duchess of Marlborough, in 1916. a son of
U.S. Representative Robert R. Hitt, in 1902. who married Marian Anthon Fish (1880–1944), a daughter of
Mamie Fish and
Stuyvesant Fish, in 1907. They divorced in 1934. • Austen Gray (1881–1954), who married Grace Eaton. After the death of his first wife, he married Grace Townsend ( Hawkshurst) Smith Turnbull (1846–1930), who was born on
Staten Island. Grace, the widow of both James R. Smith and Henry Turnbull, was a daughter of William Hawkshurst and Sarah ( Townsend) Hawkshurst. After a funeral at
St. Bartholomew's Church was buried at
Woodlawn Cemetery in the Bronx. His widow Grace died in 1930.
Descendants Through his eldest son Henry, he was a grandfather of three granddaughters: Audrey Gray (who married John R. Chapin Jr. in 1950); Beatrice D. Milo Gray (who married Austen T. Gray in 1941); and Alison Evelyn Gray (who married John F. Murray Jr. in 1948). Through his son Albert, he was a grandfather of Marian Stuyvesant Gray (who married Edward Fiedler Livingston Bruen in 1942). Through his eldest daughter Edith, he was a grandfather of Robert R. Hitt (who married Evelyn Bigelow Clark in 1932). ==References==