Alley was married from 1971 to 1977 to her high school sweetheart Robert "Bob" Alley, who coincidentally had the same name as her father. Alley married actor
Parker Stevenson on December 22, 1983. After a
miscarriage, the couple adopted their first child, a son, William True in October 1992, and in 1995, they adopted their second child, a daughter, Lillie. The marriage ended in 1997. In 1988 and 2000 respectively, Alley purchased estates in
Jacksonville, Oregon, and
Clearwater, Florida, retaining ownership of both properties until her death in 2022. From 1991 to 2020, Alley also resided on
Islesboro Island, Maine. She once owned the Mitchell Cottage, formerly the Islesboro Inn, with her then-husband Stevenson.
Body image On
The Dr. Oz Show on September 17, 2012, Alley said that she started gaining weight in late 2003, and that she had been a compulsive eater all her life without gaining weight, only noticing the change after reaching early
menopause in 1992. While working as a
Jenny Craig spokesperson from 2004 to 2007, Alley lost , bringing her weight down to . In May 2009, Alley told
People magazine that, after parting ways with Craig, she gained and weighed as much as . In March 2010, after gossip blogger
Roger Friedman alleged a link between her Organic Liaison weight-loss system and the
Church of Scientology, Alley denied it on the
Today show. In September 2011, Alley announced that she had lost using weight loss products from Organic Liaison. In 2012, Alley faced a
class-action lawsuit alleging
false advertising; the suit claimed that her weight loss was the result of exercise, including training for the TV show
Dancing with the Stars, not Organic Liaison products. Alley
settled the suit in 2013, agreeing to remove the term "Proven Products" from packaging, issue a
disclaimer on the brand's website that it is a "calorie-based weight-loss product", and pay a $130,000 settlement. In April 2014, Alley resumed a role as a spokeswoman with Jenny Craig; the Organic Liaison product line was acquired by Jenny Craig's
parent company, and subsequently integrated into Jenny Craig's product line.
Scientology Alley was raised as a
Methodist; she became a member of the
Church of Scientology in 1979. Alley said that until she became a Scientologist, she was addicted to
cocaine but then went through
Narconon, a Scientology-affiliated drug treatment program to end her addiction. By 2007, the Church designated Alley as OT VII (
Operating Thetan Level 7), and by 2018, as
New OT VIII. In January 2008, Alley said, "Scientology made me a lot stronger and tougher[...] It's made me more honest and more willing to take responsibility for other people." Due to her commitment to the
Church of Scientology, Alley decided not to reprise her role as Rebecca Howe on any episode of the
Cheers spinoff
Frasier because the series was centered on the field of medical
psychiatry, the principles of which are at odds with those of the Church. Alley was the only former
Cheers regular to do so.
Politics Alley said she supported both
Democratic and
Republican presidential nominees and independent
Ross Perot in
1992, but decided not to vote in
1988 and
2004. In August 2015, Alley tweeted that she would not support
Hillary Clinton, the Democratic nominee, during the
2016 presidential election, and on April 8, 2016, Alley tweeted her support for Republican presidential candidates
Donald Trump and
Rudy Giuliani. On October 8, 2016, Alley retracted her endorsement of Trump, tweeting, "I hate this election and I'm officially no longer endorsing either candidate." In October 2020, Alley said that she had voted for Trump four years earlier and intended to vote for him again in
2020 because "he's NOT a politician." She also endorsed Republican
John James in the
2020 U.S. Senate election in Michigan. ==Death==