Laban is referenced significantly in the
Passover Haggadah, in the context of the answer to the
traditional child's question, "Why is this night different from all other nights?" The prescribed answer begins with a quote from
ʾarammi ʾob̲ēd̲ ʾāb̲i.
Deuteronomy 26:5: normally translated as "a wandering
Aramean was my father", alluding either to
Abram or
Jacob, but here interpreted unusually as "
ibbed arammi eṯ-ʾāb̲i", "an Aramean
destroyed my father", as made clear by the
rabbinical exegesis read in the
Seder: :Come and learn what Laban the Aramean sought to do our father Jacob. For Pharaoh issued his edict against only the males, but Laban sought to uproot all, as it is said, 'An Aramean would have destroyed my father, and he went down to Egypt and he became there a nation, great, mighty and populous.' There may also be a play on words here, using
arammi in two senses – as both
arammi, "Aramean", and
rama′i, "a deceiver", since Laban cheated Jacob (
Genesis Rabbah 70:19). In this interpretation,
arammi personifies the
Israelites’ bitter enemy. The question of what the connection is between the apparently disjoint tales of Laban and Pharaoh is interpreted in several ways by rabbinical authorities.
Azriel Hildesheimer explains in his
Hukkat HaPesach that Laban was, in fact, the driving force of the entire
Exile and
Exodus saga. Rachel was Jacob's
divinely intended wife and could hypothetically have given birth to
Joseph as Jacob's
firstborn with rights of
primogeniture. In this counterfactual, Jacob's favoring Joseph's succession as the leader of the fledgling nation of Israel would have been seen as perfectly normal and fitting, given the customs of the time. No older brothers would have felt cheated and jealous, and Joseph would not have been sold into slavery. Thus, there would have been no need for Jacob's family to be sent to Egypt to unite with Joseph. In actuality, Laban married Jacob to Leah first, causing Leah's sons to precede Joseph in birth order. As a result, they felt justifiably outraged when their father seemed to violate societal norms by treating his second-youngest son as his heir, in preference to his older sons' natural and legal rights. In this way, Laban can be seen as "seeking to uproot all", by attempting to sever the
family tree of the
Patriarchs between Jacob and Joseph before the Israelites could become more than a single small family. Devora Steinmetz,
assistant professor of
Talmud at the
Jewish Theological Seminary of America, says that the story of Jacob and Laban also resonates with the
covenant with Abraham, more frequently interpreted as applying to the Exodus: "your seed shall be a stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them and they shall afflict them ... Afterward they shall come out with great wealth" (
Genesis 15:13–16). Jacob lived in the strange land of Aram, served Laban, and was afflicted by him; then he left with great wealth and returned to the Promised Land. The story thus serves to reinforce one of the central messages of the
Haggadah: that the cycle of exile, persecution, and return recurs again and again, linking the observant Jew in the
diaspora to the
Holy Land. ==References==