and his Family by
Van Dyck. (
Wilton House) Lady Anne married twice. Firstly, on 27 February 1609 to
Richard Sackville, 3rd Earl of Dorset (d.1624).
Sackville's grandfather arranged the marriage, writing in April 1607 to ask the courtier
George More of
Loseley to influence the Countess of Cumberland for the match with "that virtuous young lady the Lady Anne". The old Earl of Dorset had to counter rumours against his family honour that he trumped negotiations for her hand from the heir to the
Earl of Exeter. By her first husband Anne had five children, three sons who all died before adulthood and two daughters and co-heiresses: • Lady Margaret Sackville (1614–1676), who married
John Tufton, 2nd Earl of Thanet (1609–1664), by whom she had eleven children. The title
Baron de Clifford descended in the Tufton family. • Lady Isabella Sackville (1622–1661), who married
James Compton, 3rd Earl of Northampton (1622–1681). Secondly, in 1630, Anne married the wealthy
Philip Herbert, 4th Earl of Pembroke and 1st Earl of Montgomery (1584–1650), whose first wife,
Lady Susan de Vere had died the year before. Both marriages were reportedly difficult; contemporaries cited Lady Anne's unyielding personality as a cause, whilst her cousin
Edward Russell, 3rd Earl of Bedford, compared her to the
River Rhone. A more sympathetic viewpoint would attribute some of the troubles in her first marriage to her husband's extravagance and his infidelities. Her first husband was a prominent figure at court. Her disagreement with her husband over her inheritance claims proved another source of difficulty within their marriage. Lord Dorset believed she should settle the inheritance case rather than pursue it. A central conflict with her second husband lay in her decision to allow her younger daughter to make her own choice of husband. A list or catalogue of the household and family of the Earl and Countess of Dorset at
Knole survives. It records the names and roles of servants. It includes two African servants, Grace Robinson, a maid in the laundry, and John Morockoe, who worked in the kitchen. Both are described as "Blackamoors". ==Maintaining favour at court==