. Leonor Rivera and Rizal first met in Manila when Rivera was only 14 years old. When Rizal left for
Europe on May 3, 1882, Rivera was 15 years of age. Their ensuing correspondence began when Rizal left a poem for Rivera saying farewell, and their letters to each other slowly became romantic in nature. The correspondence between Rivera and Rizal kept Rizal focused on his studies in Europe. They employed codes in their letters because Rivera's mother did not favor Rizal as a suitor for her daughter. A letter from Mariano Catigbac dated June 27, 1884 referred to Rivera as Rizal's "betrothed". Catigbac described Rivera as having been greatly affected by Rizal's departure, frequently sick because of
insomnia. When Rizal returned to the Philippines on August 5, 1887, Rivera was no longer living in
Intramuros because she and her family had moved back to
Dagupan,
Pangasinan. Rizal wanted to meet Rivera and vice versa, but both were prohibited by their respective fathers; Francisco Mercado barred his son from meeting her in order to avoid putting the Rivera family in danger, as Rizal had by then been labeled a
filibustero or
subversive by the Spanish colonial government ==Marriage to Kipping==