La Vallière returned to Paris, while the court stayed at Compiègne and Louis went on campaign. The Queen received a letter telling her that the King had taken Montespan as his mistress, but she did not believe it. When the King returned to Compiègne, La Vallière went there; Louis sometimes visited her. He then went on a tour of conquered towns, while La Vallière stayed in Versailles. She re-joined the court in Saint-Germaine-en-Laye, where the King visited her thrice a day. On 2 October, she gave birth to
Louis, who was taken away in secrecy. The King, who loved his older children by La Vallière, showed no care for him.
Elizabeth Charlotte of the Palatinate claims that the King was “led to believe” by Montespan and her supporters that La Vallière's youngest child had been fathered by the
Duke of Lauzun. Montespan's husband returned and became extremely jealous, loudly complaining about the relationship between his wife and the King. He publicly lectured Louis on biblical morality and swore to take revenge by contracting a
sexually transmitted infection and raping his wife so that she would infect the King. After he insulted and threatened the elderly
Julie d’Angennes, Duchess of Montausier (whom he blamed for his wife's adultery), the King imprisoned him. He was freed on the condition that he exiled himself to his country estate. There, he announced the death of his wife, organised a
funeral, wore mourning clothes, and forbade his children to contact their mother. In order to contain the
scandal, La Vallière remained the official mistress and had to share an apartment with Montespan so that the King could visit her.'''' “Double adultery”, an extramarital affair in which both parties are married to others, was considered a grave sin by the church and adulterous women could be imprisoned in a convent for life. Madame de Montespan had to be protected from the legal and personal attacks of her husband (who was known to be physically violent). Lair argues that La Vallière endured these humiliations to protect the interests of her son and because she had little income. Her son was acknowledged by the King in February 1669, created
count of
Vermandois, and made
admiral of France (which ensured Louis’ personal control of the
navy).'''' In March 1669, Montespan gave birth to her first child by the King. During her time at court, La Vallière lived in several places, first in the Palais Brion until the
Royal Academy of Painting and Sculpture moved there in July 1665. The King then gave her an
hôtel particulière in the , near the
Tuileries. She owned it until her entry into the convent, when her brother inherited it. Around 1668, she owned a
pavilion in the rue de la Pompe in Versailles
; in 1672, the King bought its land to build new
stables. In 1669, she had a pavilion in the Tuileries; she owned a house in
Saint-Germaine-en-Laye from March 1669 to December 1674, and had her own apartment in the
palace there.
Religious turn and Réflexions sur la miséricorde de Dieu ’s
Mademoiselle de La Vallière et ses enfants (‘Mademoiselle de La Vallière and Her Children’), contemporary painting. After the end of her affair with Louis XIV, La Vallière settled into a quiet life at court. She continued studying, reading historical, theological, and philosophical works. In 1670 (certainly before May), during a near-fatal, long illness (perhaps
smallpox), she had a vision of her soul at the gates of
hell, from which the “
thunder of God” awakened her. She turned to religion and abandoned her previous, libertine friends. She read the spiritual works of the
Counter-Reformation, being most influenced by
Teresa of Ávila's The Way of Perfection. Bossuet became her spiritual guide. With his help, she wrote her
Réflexions sur la miséricorde de Dieu (“Reflections on the Mercy of God”) in 1671, which was published anonymously in 1680. It became a popular
devotional book among French Catholics, reprinted at least ten times, often under her name.Her authorship of
Réflexions was later contested. In 1853, argued that the book had been conceived by Bossuet and merely written down by La Vallière. However, the style of
Réflexions differs from that of Bossuet's own work and contains a woman's autobiographical notes. In 1928,
Marcel Langlois, a
literary critic claimed that La Vallière could not have written the book as its “rationalist tone” cannot belong to a woman. He argued that no women of La Vallière's time had the knowledge of
philosophy and
theology demonstrated in the book, or read the
Bible in
Latin as its author had. However, La Vallière was known for her understanding of Aristotle and Descartes, and many women of her circles read
religious texts in Latin, as defended. Her authorship has been asserted through textual analyses by Jean-Christian Petitfils and Monique de Huertas. In late June 1670, Henretta of England died. She
agonised for a long time and believed that she had been
poisoned. La Vallière was present at her deathbed. In her last hours, she was told by canon , that “all [her] life had been but
sin”, and she repented publicly. When she complained of excruciating pain, Feuillet told her to embrace it and think of God. Courtiers remained under the impression of Madame's sudden death and her repentance for a long time. After her conversion, La Vallière was allowed to take communion immediately, but she refused, finding herself “unworthy”. The second wife of Monsieur,
Elizabeth Charlotte of the Palatinate recounts questioning La Vallière about why she remained a
“suivante” (a servant or companion) of Montespan. She replied that she wished to “do
penance [...] suffer[ing] what was most painful for her, to share the King's heart [with another woman] and see herself despised by him [...], offer[ing] all her pains to God as
atonement for her past sins; for, since her sins had been public, her penance had to be public too”. Courtiers saw her new religiousness as a
hypocritical ploy for achieve material gain. Her potential marriage was mentioned again, possibly to
Lauzun.
Second flight to Chaillot , Louise-Françoise, Mademoiselle de Nantes,
Louise-Marie-Anne, Mademoiselle de Tours, and
Louis-Auguste, Duke of Maine. In early spring 1671, La Vallière fled to the
Visitation convent of the
Filles de Sainte-Marie (“Daughters of the
Virgin Mary”) in
Chaillot. She took none of her belongings and only left a letter to the King. Whereas he had personally pursued La Vallière in 1662, this time Louis continued his planned activities; however, he was noted to have cried during a carriage ride. He sent Lauzun to persuade La Vallière to return, but he failed, as did
Bernardin Gigault de Bellefonds, Marquis of Bellefonds, a good friend of La Vallière. To Bellefonds, La Vallière said that she “would have left the court sooner” but she had felt unable to never see the King again. She added that her “weakness” for Louis remained, but she wanted to dedicate the “rest of her life” to ensuring her own
salvation. When hearing this, the King cried but sent
Colbert to retrieve La Vallière, by force if necessary. Montespan opposed her potential return and quarrelled with the King. Colbert asked La Vallière to return so that the King “could speak to her further”. She agreed on the condition that Louis would permit her to enter a convent “if she persevered”. She had spent around twelve hours in Chaillot. Montespan ran to receive her with open arms and tearful eyes; the King talked with her for an hour, crying. Some faulted La Vallière for being “inconstant [in her] resolution” while others thought that she had acted “foolishly” by returning without exploiting her strong bargaining position. The
Grande Mademoiselle believed that the King would have secretly been happy to “get rid of” her. Lair argues that Louis still needed La Vallière as a cover for his affair with Montespan because his suit for her
separation from her husband did not progress. The King decided to march on Flanders again and invited La Vallière, who declined. Since her presence was necessary for Montespan's, the King commanded her to go. Even her detractors considered her behaviour after her return from Chaillot “dignified and reserved”. Onlookers were scandalised to see the King ride in a carriage sitting between his two mistresses. During these years, La Vallière practiced charity, especially towards the poor of Vaujours. She grew close to the Queen who pitied her for her humiliations and appreciated her repentance. Religious practice gained importance in La Vallière's life: she prayed and
meditated often, avoided events and company that could have “distracted” her, and wore a
cilice under her
robe.
Background of retirement La Vallière's children were raised by
Colbert and his wife; she only saw them occasionally. Her eight-year-old daughter,
Marie-Anne, Mademoiselle de Blois, a child of “lively and precocious intelligence” attended her first
ball in January 1674, in her mother's presence Bellefonds worried that La Vallière's attachment to her daughter would prevent her from entering a convent. She admitted that she had “sensitivity”, but her feelings for her children were conflicted because of their “sinful” birth: “I confess that I was delighted to see her [...] But, at the same time, I had
scruples about it [...] These are rather opposite emotions, yet I feel them as I tell you”. She commissioned a painting of her and her children, probably as a keepsake for them.Many noblewomen retired as
pensionnaires (boarders) to the
Visitation convent of the Filles de Sainte-Marie (“Daughters of the Virgin Mary”) in Chaillot. They lead relatively unrestricted lives, maintainting their social networks and not bound by a
vow; they could leave and marry at any time. However, La Vallière felt that this would not be enough
penitence. She considered both the
Couvent des Capucines (“Convent of Capuchin Sisters”) and the Grand Couvent (“Great Convent”) of the
Discalced Carmelites, choosing the latter. There were strict requirements for women who sought to enter: they had to have led a “regular” life, demonstrated a “good character”, and never been the cause of scandal. As the Carmelites hesitated to accept her because of her public adultery, she sought the help of Judith de Bellefonds, a nun in the convent and the aunt of her friend. In late October 1673, the Marquis of Bellefonds informed her that she would be accepted as a
postulant; however, she was unwell and advised to rest. When she returned to court from her retreat to the convent, her impending retirement became public. She was supported in her decision by Bellefonds,
Bossuet, and
Paul de Beauvilliers, Duke of Saint-Aignan. Bossuet helped convince Madame de Montespan to endorse La Vallière's departure to the King. While she did not oppose it, she ridiculed it publicly. She sent her confidante,
Françoise d’Aubigné, Madame Scarron to dissuade her. Scarron warned La Vallière that it might be too difficult to live as a Carmelite after the comforts of the royal court, advising her that she should enter as a secular benefactress and see whether she could tolerate the rules. La Vallière answered that this would not be proper penitence. By December 1673, as a result of Montespan's campaign, courtiers thought that La Vallière had changed her mind and mocked her. In the same month, she stood as
godmother to the third child of the King and Montespan, named
Louise-Françoise after her. She and her two brothers were then legitimised to protect them from Madame de Montespan's husband after La Vallière's retirement. The
separation of the Montespans was pronounced, rendering La Vallière as a decoy unnecessary. In March 1674, she wrote to Bellefonds that she was “leaving the world” with no “regrets”, but “not without pain”. La Vallière was in debt because of her expenditure (especially on charity), but she had to declare herself debt-free to enter the convent. With Colbert's intervention, the King permitted their son, Vermandois, to lend the necessary funds to her. By March 1674, La Vallière had arranged her finances; on 18 April, she gave her jewels to her children and petitioned the King to establish pensions for her mother, step-sister, and
servants. She renounced her paternal inheritance to her brother. == Carmelite nun ==