In the early 1990s, Bergin met
Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, a
Calvin Klein publicist, whom he dated seriously, despite her burgeoning relationship with
John F. Kennedy Jr., whom she later married in September 1996. Kennedy and Bessette-Kennedy died in a
plane crash in July 1999. In early 2004, Bergin published a book about his relationship with Bessette,
The Other Man, claiming that they continued a sexual affair during the time Bessette was dating Kennedy and during their marriage. On September 24, 2004, Bergin married makeup artist Joy Tilk with whom he has two children (Jesse b. October 8, 2000; Alana b. February 16, 2004). Bergin has worked with the anti-drug children's program
D.A.R.E. as a national spokesperson, and has lent his name, time, and image to numerous
AIDS charities. == In popular culture ==