Between adults and children Sex between an adult family member and a child is a form of child sexual abuse, also known as
child incestuous abuse, and for many years has been the most reported form of incest. Father–daughter and stepfather–stepdaughter sexual abuse are the most commonly reported forms of adult–child incest, with most of the remaining involving a mother or stepmother. Many studies found that stepfathers tend to be far more likely than biological fathers to engage in this form of incest. One study of adult women in San Francisco estimated that 17% of women were abused by stepfathers and 2% were abused by biological fathers. Father–son incest is reported less often, but it is not known how close the frequency is to heterosexual incest because it is probably more under-reported. The prevalence of incest between parents and their children is difficult to estimate due to the coercive silencing of victims. In a 1999 news story, the
BBC reported: "Close-knit family life in India masks an alarming amount of sexual abuse of children and teenage girls by family members, a new report suggests. Delhi organisation
RAHI said 76% of respondents to its survey had been abused when they were children 40% of those by a family member." According to the National Center for Victims of Crime a large proportion of
rape committed in the United States is perpetrated by a family member: Adults who as children were incestuously victimized by adults often suffer from low
self-esteem, difficulties in interpersonal relationships, and
sexual dysfunction, and are at an extremely high risk of many
mental disorders, including
depression,
anxiety disorders,
phobic avoidance reactions,
somatoform disorder,
substance abuse,
borderline personality disorder, and
complex post-traumatic stress disorder. The
Goler clan in
Nova Scotia is a specific instance in which child sexual abuse in the form of forced adultchild and siblingsibling incest took place over at least three generations. A number of Goler children were victims of sexual abuse at the hands of fathers, mothers, uncles, aunts, sisters, brothers, cousins, and each other. During interrogation by police, several of the adults openly admitted to engaging in many forms of sexual activity, up to and including full intercourse, multiple times with the children. Sixteen adults (both men and women) were charged with hundreds of allegations of incest and sexual abuse of children as young as five. Child protection workers and psychologists said interviews with the children indicated "a virtual sexual free-for-all". While incest between adults and children generally involves the adult as the perpetrator of abuse, there are rare instances of sons sexually assaulting their mothers. These sons are typically mid-adolescent to young adult. Although the mothers may be accused of being seductive with their sons and inviting the sexual contact, this is contrary to evidence. Such accusations can parallel other forms of rape, where, due to
victim blaming, a woman is accused of being at fault for the rape. In some cases, mother–son incest is best classified as
acquaintance rape of the mother by the adolescent son. The most commonly reported form of abusive sibling incest is abuse of a younger sibling by an older sibling. Absence of the father in particular has been found to be a significant element of most cases of sexual abuse of female children by a brother.
Between adults Proponents of incest between consenting adults draw clear boundaries between the behavior of consenting adults on one hand and rape, child molestation, and abusive incest on the other. However, even consensual relationships such as these are still legally classified as incest and criminalized in many jurisdictions (although there are
certain exceptions). James Roffee, a senior lecturer in criminology at
Monash University and former worker on legal responses to familial sexual activity in England and Wales, and Scotland discussed how the
European Convention on Human Rights deems all familial sexual acts to be criminal, even if all parties give their full consent and are knowledgeable to all possible consequences. He also argues that the use of particular language tools in the legislation manipulates the reader to deem all familial sexual activities as immoral and criminal, even if all parties are consenting adults.
Aunts, uncles, mothers, fathers, nieces, or nephews Consensual sex between individuals aged 18 and older is always lawful in the Netherlands and Belgium, even among closely related family members. Sexual acts between an adult family member and a minor are illegal, though they are classified not as incest but as abuse of the authority such an adult has over a minor, comparable to that of a teacher, coach, or priest. In
Florida, consensual adult sexual intercourse with someone known to be one's aunt, uncle, niece, or nephew constitutes a felony of the third degree. Other states also commonly prohibit marriages between such kin. The legality of sex with a half-aunt or half-uncle varies state by state. In the United Kingdom, incest includes only sexual intercourse with a parent, grandparent, child, or sibling, but the more recently introduced offense of "sex with an adult relative" extends as far as half-siblings, uncles, aunts, nephews, and nieces. However, the term 'incest' remains widely used in popular culture to describe any form of sexual activity with a relative. In Canada, marriage between uncles and nieces and between aunts and nephews is illegal.
Between adult siblings One of the most public cases of adult sibling incest in the 2000s is the case of
Patrick Stübing and Susan Karolewski, a brothersister couple from Germany. Because of violent behavior on the part of his father, Patrick was taken in at the age of 3 by foster parents, who adopted him later. At the age of 23 he learned about his biological parents, contacted his mother, and met her and his then 16-year-old sister Susan for the first time. The now-adult Patrick moved in with his birth family shortly thereafter. After their mother died suddenly six months later, the siblings became intimately close, and had their first child together in 2001. By 2004, they had had four children together: Eric, Sarah, Nancy, and Sofia. The public nature of their relationship, and the repeated
prosecutions and jail time they have served as a result, have caused some in Germany to question whether incest between consenting adults should be punished at all. An article about them in
Der Spiegel states that the couple are happy together. According to court records, the first three children have mental and physical disabilities, and have been placed in foster care. On 24 September 2014, the
German Ethics Council recommended that the government abolish laws criminalizing incest between siblings, arguing that such bans impinge upon citizens. Some societies differentiate between full-sibling and half-sibling relations.
Cousin relationships Marriages and sexual relationships between first cousins are stigmatized as incest in some cultures, but tolerated in much of the world. Currently, 24
US states prohibit marriages between first cousins, and another seven permit them only under special circumstances. The United Kingdom permits both marriage and sexual relations between first cousins. In some non-Western societies, marriages between close biological relatives account for 2060% of all marriages. First- and second-cousin marriages are rare in Western Europe, North America, and Oceania, accounting for less than 1% of marriages, but reach 9% in South America, East Asia, and South Europe, and about 50% in regions of the Middle East, North Africa, and South Asia. Communities such as the Dhond and the
Bhittani of Pakistan clearly prefer marriages between cousins due to the belief they ensure purity of the descent line, provide intimate knowledge of the spouses, and ensure that
patrimony will not pass into the hands of "outsiders".
Cross-cousin marriages are preferred among the
Yanomami of Brazilian Amazonia, among many other tribal societies identified by anthropologists. performed elsewhere, while other states do not. There are some cultures in Asia which stigmatize cousin marriage, in some instances even marriages between second cousins or more remotely related people. This is notably true in the culture of
Korea. In South Korea, before 1997, two people with the same last name and clan were prohibited from marrying. In light of this law being held unconstitutional, South Korea now only prohibits up to third cousins (see
Article 809 of the Korean Civil Code).
Hmong culture prohibits the marriage of anyone with the same last name to do so would result in being shunned by the entire community, and they are usually stripped of their last name. In a review of 48 studies of children parented by cousins, the rate of birth defects was twice that of non-related couples: 4% for cousin couples as opposed to 2% for the general population.
Defined through marriage Some cultures include relatives by marriage in incest prohibitions; these relationships are called
affinity rather than
consanguinity. For example, the question of the legality and morality of a widower who wished to marry his
deceased wife's sister was the subject of long and fierce debate in the
United Kingdom in the 19th century, involving, among others,
Matthew Boulton and
Charles La Trobe. The marriages were entered into in Scotland and Switzerland respectively, where they were legal. In medieval Europe,
Lateran IV ruled that standing as a
godparent to a child also created a bond of affinity; which precluded legal marriage. But in other societies, a deceased spouse's sibling was considered the ideal person to marry. The Hebrew Bible forbids a man from marrying his brother's widow with the exception that, if his brother dies childless, the man is required to marry his brother's widow so as to "raise up seed to him". Some societies have long practiced
sororal polygyny, a form of
polygamy in which a man marries multiple wives who are sisters to each other (though not closely related to him). In Islamic law, marriage among close blood relations like parents, stepparents, parents in-law, siblings, stepsiblings, the children of siblings, aunts, and uncles is forbidden, while first or second cousins may marry. Marrying the widow of a brother or the sister of a deceased or divorced wife is also allowed. ==Inbreeding==