Reiner and her husband were due to have dinner with
Michelle and
Barack Obama on the evening of December 14, 2025. That afternoon, a
massage therapist came to their
Brentwood, Los Angeles, residence at 255 South Chadbourne Avenue, for a previously scheduled appointment for the couple, and was met with a lack of response; she then called the couple's daughter Romy. Romy, who lived in a property across the street, arrived quickly at around 3 p.m., and discovered her father's body. Her friend then called 911. Reiner and her husband were murdered early in the morning on December 14 from multiple stab wounds. Their son Nick was soon arrested on suspicion of murder. On December 17, Michele and Rob's other two children Jake and Romy released a joint statement calling their parents their "best friends." Various prominent figures extended tributes towards Reiner and her husband, including
Nancy Pelosi,
Bill and
Hillary Clinton, and
Laurie David.
Kelley Robinson, the president of LGBTQ advocacy group
Human Rights Campaign, thanked Reiner for her allyship and support of the community, while
Dustin Lance Black, another LGBTQ activist, said "the world has lost two of its greatest champions of justice, love and equality". Reiner and her husband were cremated on December 19. The
Los Angeles Police Department opened a
homicide investigation into their deaths and on December 16, her son Nick was charged with two counts of first-degree murder with a special circumstance of multiple murders. Nick made his first court appearance on the murder charges on December 17, with the appearance only being brief. His
arraignment was initially set to be held on January 7, 2026. However, it would be delayed to February 23, 2026, after Nick's attorney
Alan Jackson withdrew from his legal defense during a court appearance. While appearing in court on February 23, 2026, Nick pled not guilty. However, he would also once again be denied bail and, as of February 2026, remains jailed. During his April 29, 2026 hearing, Nick agreed to a general time waiver, thus waiving his right to a
speedy trial. The next preliminary hearing for Nick was then set for September 15, 2026. ==Filmography==