,
Alyson Hannigan, Brendon,
Nathan Fillion,
Danny Strong and
Tom Lenk at a
John Kerry fundraiser Brendon was married to actress Tressa DiFiglia from 2001 to 2006. He enjoyed painting and photography and sold his own original artwork. At a
Buffy fan convention in
Cleveland, Ohio, in 2004, he announced that he had voluntarily entered rehab for
alcoholism. Brendon married Moonda Tee in Las Vegas in 2014, one week after proposing. He announced their separation on social media five months later, in February 2015.
Legal issues In March 2010, Brendon was
tased and arrested by
Los Angeles police, who confronted him in response to a call about an intoxicated individual. He allegedly swung his fists at the officers and attempted to run away, and was arrested for
felony vandalism. He was later charged with four misdemeanors, including one count of resisting arrest, two counts of battery against a police officer, and one count of vandalism. In May 2010, he again checked himself into rehab to address his addiction to alcohol and
sleeping pills. Brendon pleaded no contest to all four charges in June 2010 and received a one-year suspended jail sentence, 36 months of probation, and 10 days of community service. While participating in the Tree City Comic Con, Brendon was arrested on October 17, 2014, in a
Boise, Idaho, hotel lobby for misdemeanor charges of malicious injury to property and resisting or obstructing officers. He later issued a public apology, calling the incident "embarrassing" and attributing it to drinking alcohol while taking pain medication for a knee problem. Brendon was arrested on suspicion of grand theft by
Fort Lauderdale police in February 2015 after he reportedly trashed his hotel room and refused to pay the bill. He was arrested again in March 2015 for destroying another hotel room after demanding an upgrade. In an interview the next day, he blamed his behavior on a recent change in medication and said he would see a doctor to have it reviewed. Because of the arrest, Brendon missed the first day of the ALT*Con conference and apologized to fans. Brendon appeared in August 2015 on
Dr. Phil to discuss his recent arrests and alcoholism, but he walked off the show shortly after the interview began. He later explained on
Facebook that he had been drinking before the interview and felt unprepared to "lay [out] the darkest parts of myself on national TV". He returned to
Dr. Phil in December that year to discuss his arrests and mental health struggles, including several suicide attempts. He was arrested in
Saratoga Springs, New York, in October 2015 for strangling his girlfriend in a hotel room. He was charged with felony third-degree robbery,
criminal mischief, and obstruction of breathing. Brendon pleaded guilty to criminal mischief, a misdemeanor. Under his plea deal, he avoided a custodial sentence if he completed drug and alcohol counseling and one year of probation. He subsequently entered a 90-day residential treatment program in California. Brendon was arrested for assaulting another girlfriend at a hotel bar in
Palm Springs, California, in October 2017. He was charged with felony corporal injury to a spouse in April 2019 and pleaded not guilty a month later. He later agreed to a plea deal to avoid a potential four-year prison sentence for
felony domestic violence and violating active protective orders issued by two states. The orders allowed him to be near the woman but prohibited harassment, threats, injury, or assault. On February 28, 2020, he was sentenced to three years of probation, 20 hours of community service, and a 52-week domestic violence course. He was arrested in
Terre Haute, Indiana, in August 2021 for failure to identify and obtaining a
prescription medication by fraud. He was pulled over while driving erratically, and police found bags with crystal residue powder in them. A police dog search located secret compartments cut into the floor of the car containing additional bags with residue. The arrest violated Brendon's probation for domestic assault. A
plea agreement was reached, though its details were not released.
Health problems and other issues Brendon, who suffered from
cauda equina syndrome, underwent spinal surgery after a fall in February 2021. Several days later, during a Facebook Live stream from his hospital room, he addressed the allegation made by his former co-star
Charisma Carpenter against
Joss Whedon, saying: "I love and support [her] very much and I know that story, and it's not a kind story," he added that although he "love[s] both Carpenter and Whedon," his relationship with Whedon had not always been friendly, and that it was "kinda hard to give a statement" given his relationship with those involved. Following his August 2021 arrest, Brendon experienced
paralysis in his genitals and legs. Two months later, he underwent another spinal surgery, during which his spinal cord was punctured, resulting in a
cerebrospinal fluid leak. In 2022, he suffered a heart attack and was diagnosed with a
congenital heart defect. There are reports that tied those health issues to a congenital heart defect, back problems, multiple surgeries, and long-running battles with substance abuse.
Death On March 20, 2026, at age 54, Brendon died in his sleep in his home in
Greencastle, Indiana. His body was discovered in his bed by a friend who was helping take care of him. His family announced his death later that day in a statement released to the media saying he died of
natural causes. A
toxicology report is pending, but no foul play is suspected and the
coroner noted Brendon had a "history of cardiac issues." An
autopsy is scheduled, and the final
cause of death is pending. == Filmography ==