Rose was born and grew up in
Hayes in west London with her two sisters. Her elder sister was the philosopher
Gillian Rose, and she is a cousin of the theatre director
Braham Murray. Her father, a doctor, arrived in the United Kingdom from a
prisoner-of-war camp where he had suffered torture; he and her mother, who was prevented by her family from attending
medical school, divorced when Rose was three. Rose grew up with her stepfather, who also had a surgical practice, and whose surname she took along with her sister. Some fifty members of her mother's family, the Prevezers, had been murdered by the
Nazis in the
Chełmno extermination camp in central
Poland. She befriended fellow feminists
Juliet Mitchell,
Laura Mulvey, and
Sally Alexander during her PhD years at UCL. In the 1990s Rose was in a relationship with the
psychoanalyst Adam Phillips, with whom she adopted a Chinese-born daughter, Mia, in 1995. In 2012, her partner was the psychoanalyst Jonathan Sklar. She lives in North London. ==Notes==