According to Ray Coleman, who conducted a lengthy interview with Ormsby-Gore for his 1985 biography of Eric Clapton, she was first attracted to the guitarist 'when they met at a party in Glebe Place, Chelsea during November 1968.' Cream played their final concert on 26 November. They met again the following spring, by which time Clapton had purchased Hurtwood Edge, a large Italianate villa in Surrey, and was forming his next group, Blind Faith. One account gives credit for the introduction to
Ian Dallas in 1969 when Alice was 17. It was Dallas who first introduced Clapton to the Persian tale of Layla and Majnun, with Dallas suggesting Ormsby-Gore would be Layla (in fact, Clapton would identify Pattie Harrison as Layla). However, Clapton in his autobiography credits
David Mlinaric, who did some interior design work for Clapton in March 1969. Mlinaric, a friend of Ormsby-Gore, took her with him, when visiting Clapton. Within a few weeks Clapton and Ormsby-Gore had formed a relationship. She was named as his girlfriend in an interview with Chris Welch, and lived thereafter partially at Hurtwood Edge. On 7 June, Ormsby-Gore was photographed with Clapton,
Ginger Baker and
Germaine Greer backstage at Blind Faith's concert in
Hyde Park. A few days later Ormsby-Gore travelled to Scandinavia during Blind Faith's 8-date tour, and was photographed with Clapton on 14 June in
Oslo; and at
Madison Square Garden on 12 July when the band played their first US gig. Also during the summer of 1969 Ormsby-Gore entertained
Marc Bolan and his girlfriend June Child at Hurtwood Edge. The friendship between Bolan, Child and Ormsby-Gore led to her being a witness at their wedding on 30 January 1970. Another mutual friend was the British singer
Linda Lewis. Ormsby-Gore is often described as being a fiancée of Clapton, but it is doubtful that this was ever more than newspaper speculation and leading questions by journalists. Talk of an engagement between Clapton and Ormsby-Gore appeared on 17 September 1969, but the couple were quick to debunk these remarks: "While Lord Harlech's wedding plans run the course of true love, the marriage of his 17-year-old daughter Alice Ormsby-Gore, to 24-year-old guitarist Eric Clapton, a plasterer's son, seems rather more remote. Two months ago they admitted to being 'more or less engaged', with Eric adding, "Yes, I'd say there is more than a 50–50 chance we will get married soon". But yesterday Alice was saying: "We're certainly not thinking of getting married at the moment. But we do love each other and maybe it will happen in due course." A colleague of Clapton tried to explain: "Eric and Alice were a bit fraught after they said they were more or less engaged. I think they'll just go out and get married when they think their relationship needs the State's blessing. But I know they are not sitting around planning a wedding." The relationship went through a tempestuous phase over the next year. Already romantically obsessed with Pattie Harrison, Clapton also had an involvement with Pattie's sister Paula Boyd through into 1970. This provoked a break with Ormsby-Gore, though there was a reconciliation in March 1970 when she travelled to New York to see him. They were photographed arriving back on 8 March, to more speculative questions about marriage, again denied by both. In the same month Pattie Harrison received a love letter from Clapton which led to a flirtation. In his autobiography Clapton mentions another argument with Ormsby-Gore after which she left Hurtwood Edge. As stated above she was in Israel from April/May until that November. On her return she moved back into Hurtwood Edge. By then Clapton was using
heroin quite heavily to mitigate his continuing obsession with
George Harrison's wife
Pattie Boyd; Alice also became hooked on the drug. In his autobiography Clapton says, "Alice came back to live with me, and she started using too". The couple stayed together until early 1974. Clapton has stated he was not in love with Ormsby-Gore, but her account suggests she was deeply in love with him. In Ray Coleman's book
Survivor she says, "Maybe because I was only seventeen I wrongly thought of it as mutual. My extreme youth made any rational analysis of the situation impossible." They led a mostly reclusive life, though they attended the wedding of Mick and
Bianca Jagger in Saint-Tropez in May 1971, travelled to New York in late July for
The Concert for Bangladesh in which Clapton starred, and to see
the Who in Paris in September 1972. Of the New York visit Ormsby-Gore recalled: I was desperately running around that city trying to score some heroin for Eric. And I remember thinking how stupid it was for me, even then. I did that for him, and for myself, for three years. It was probably childish to be over-protective, but I thought it helped him not to have to face the full horror, himself, of scoring his own heroin supply. Ormsby-Gore played a significant role in encouraging Clapton to play a concert, with a select backing group of rock star friends, at the Rainbow on 13 January 1973. His first live appearance for some time, it did not lead to any others. By August 1973 the health of Clapton and Ormsby-Gore was causing deep concern among friends and family. In addition to using heroin, Ormsby-Gore had also developed alcohol dependency, her method for dealing with withdrawal symptoms if there was not enough heroin for both of them. Clapton acknowledged later that Ormsby-Gore dissuaded him from injecting the drug: "That was very clever of her really to see that that was a big step. And once you took that step, you were in a lot of trouble." An intervention by her father, Lord Harlech, along with counsel from
Pete Townshend, and treatment by Meg Patterson, instigated a period of gradual recovery. By early 1974 Clapton was working on a Welsh border farm run by Francis Ormsby-Gore. Alice was treated separately at a nursing home near Regents Park in London. When in the spring they met again a decision was reached to end the relationship, with Clapton talking about his feelings for Pattie Harrison. Despite the break-up, Ormsby-Gore maintained a link with Clapton's grandmother Rose Clapp and was present at her funeral in December 1994.
Death of her brother On 5 November 1974, aged 22, Ormsby-Gore found her elder brother, Julian, dead in his apartment from gunshot wounds, an apparent suicide. Ormsby-Gore told the coroner at her brother's inquest that "He hadn't been working very much because he was receiving treatment from doctors. The last time I heard from him was 10 days before his death when he phoned me at home; I suggested he should visit me but he didn't come".
Wales and Paris Ormsby-Gore's life showed none of the usual traits of the '
socialite'. She most likely shared the outlook of her sister Victoria in this regard: "I despise The Social Life because it degrades the spirit. It is belittling to drag yourself to parties with utterly pointless people whose main activity is clamouring for glamorous recognition." After living near her ancestral home in the late 1970s, Ormsby-Gore moved to Paris, France in 1982 where she lived a private and Bohemian life, including on a houseboat near the Sixth Arrondissement. She also travelled to Istanbul. In 1984 Ray Coleman interviewed her extensively in Paris for the first full-length biography of Eric Clapton. Coleman found her a willing and lucid interviewee; she had an 'exceptional memory for detail' and gave 'hours of heartfelt (...) crucially important recollections of the five years in which she and Eric lived together.'. Giving this interview may have led to the call she made to Clapton in December 1984, extending an invitation to Paris, which, despite the imminent break-up of his marriage to Pattie, he declined. On 25 January 1985, her father Lord Harlech was killed in a car accident. Ormsby-Gore and her three surviving siblings (including her younger brother
Francis Ormsby-Gore who succeeded their father in the title of
Lord Harlech) and her half-sister,
Pandora Colin attended the funeral, along with
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, whom David Ormsby-Gore was romantically linked to in the late 1960s.
Final years Alice Ormsby-Gore returned to England in 1994. She was treated in the
Royal Shrewsbury Hospital for a time with liver and
pancreas illness caused by alcohol. Later press coverage mentioned that in recent years she also had heart problems. She was persuaded to register at the
Priory Hospital in South West London for treatment for heroin and alcohol addiction for three weeks in October 1994. While there she contacted Pete Townshend: "She said it was hard to deal with the group therapy on offer because she felt she couldn't speak openly about her time with Eric. I told her that if she didn't speak about it she wouldn't get clean. As much as I loved Eric I told Alice to take care of herself for once. She stuck to her guns and died, tragically, the following year." Clapton described how at The Priory there was a confrontational private session with him which indicated she was haunted by aspects of their time together during the years 1969–74. However, he also reported that she seemed optimistic about her treatment: "I was confident that she was making progress and anticipated that she would soon be on the road to a full and complete recovery." Ormsby-Gore told Chris Steele of The Priory that "she could not stand the pain of being sober." Ormsby-Gore's last months were spent in Bournemouth, Dorset, living on benefits under the name of "Deirdre Stevenson" at several addresses, including a "half-way house" rehabilitation centre, with some support from
Narcotics Anonymous. Her final address from March was a
bedsit in Aylesbury Road, Boscombe, an area then notorious for drug dealing. Shortly before her death she was in hospital with injuries to her head, leg and arms which she said were from an assault by three men on nearby Walpole Road. One visitor to the flats at Aylesbury Road saw her sitting with two black eyes, a swollen jaw and her arm in plaster a few days before her death. She was also known to suffer black-outs. Alice Ormsby-Gore died on 5 April 1995 after taking heroin which unwittingly was six times the fatal dose. Her body was discovered three days later at 10am on 8 April in her bedsit, with a belt in one hand and a syringe in another, a single needle mark in her arm. Her death was widely reported in the press. Her funeral took place on 22 April. By the time of the inquest in early May six other people had overdosed in the Bournemouth area owing to the heroin being unusually pure. At the inquest pathologist Milena Lesna stated that medical records revealed Ormsby-Gore had made "remarkable progress" since the start of the year to break her addictions. A local man Brian Robertson, who knew her in her final months, told a journalist: "Alice wanted to help herself and was trying to stay sober. I don't believe she took any heroin in the time that I knew her since Christmas last year. Fate played a hand". They were optimistic for the future. 'She was a lovely, beautiful person. I was fortunate our paths crossed and I will remember her as she was, very intelligent, very kind, with a lovely soul.' ==Ancestry==