Kadalie married and divorced Richie Bertelsmann, a
white academic; their marriage contravened the apartheid-era
Immorality Act. Their only child, Julia Bertelsmann, became an economist, and she married American politician
Joel Pollak in 2009 during a ceremony at the residence of
Helen Zille, then the
Premier of the Western Cape. Pollak published a biography of his mother-in-law in 2023, entitled
Comrade Kadalie, You Are Out of Order!.'''' In 2018, Kadalie moved to
Los Angeles, California to live with her daughter's family. Friends later said that her political conversion alienated her from former allies in South Africa. Pollak, who is a
Republican campaigner, suggested that Kadalie supported "the ongoing
anti-'woke' backlash" and admired Trump "as a
skollie – a 'ruffian,' in South African slang – who would shake up a complacent American establishment". She was diagnosed with
lung cancer in 2021 and died at home in Los Angeles on 16 April 2022. A memorial service was held in
Rondebosch, Cape Town in June, and Helen Zille was among the speakers; she joked that Kadalie's character was such that she could have made a success of any pursuit "except a diplomatic career". == Honours ==