Marriage and lifestyle Lucan met his future wife,
Veronica Duncan, early in 1963. She was born in 1937 to Major Charles Moorhouse Duncan and his wife, Thelma. Veronica's father had died in a car accident when she was young, after which the family moved to South Africa. Her mother remarried, and her family returned to England, where her new stepfather became manager of a hotel in
Guildford. With her sister, Christina, she was educated at
St Swithun's School, Winchester. After displaying a talent for art, Veronica went on to study at an art college in
Bournemouth. The two sisters later shared a flat in London, where Veronica worked as a model and later as a secretary. Christina's marriage to the wealthy William Shand Kydd (half-brother to
Peter Shand Kydd, stepfather of
Diana Spencer, later Princess of Wales) introduced her to London
high society, and it was at a golf-club function in the country that Veronica and Lucan first met. and the two were married at
Holy Trinity Church, Brompton, on 20 November. After a ceremony attended by
Princess Alice, Countess of Athlone (one of whose
ladies-in-waiting had been a relative of Lady Lucan), but few other prominent members of high society, the couple honeymooned in Europe, travelling first class on the
Orient Express. Lucan's already embattled finances were given a welcome boost by his father, who provided him with a
marriage settlement designed to finance a larger family home and any future additions to the Lucan family. Lucan repaid some of his creditors and purchased 46
Lower Belgrave Street in Belgravia, redecorating it to suit Veronica's tastes. Two months after the wedding, on 21 January 1964, Lucan's father died of a stroke. In addition to a reputed £250,000 inheritance, Lucan acquired his father's titles:
Earl of Lucan; Baron Lucan of
Castlebar; Baron Bingham of Melcombe Bingham and
Baronet Bingham of Castlebar. His wife became the Countess of Lucan. The couple had three children: • Lady Frances Bingham, born on 24 October 1964 •
George Bingham, 8th Earl of Lucan, born on 21 September 1967 •
Lady Camilla Bingham, born on 30 June 1970. Following the 1964 birth of their first daughter, Frances, from early in 1965, they employed a nanny, Lillian Jenkins, to look after her. Lucan tried to teach Veronica about gambling and traditional pursuits like hunting, shooting, and fishing. He bought her golf lessons; she later gave up the sport. Lucan's daily routine consisted of breakfast at 9:00 am, coffee, dealing with the morning's letters, reading the newspapers, and playing the piano. He sometimes jogged in the park and took his
Dobermann for walks. Lunch at the Clermont Club was followed by afternoon games of backgammon. Returning home to change into
black tie, the earl typically spent the remainder of the day at the Clermont, gambling into the early hours, watched sometimes by Veronica. In 1965, while still working at Brandt's, he had written of his desire to have "£2m in the bank", claiming that "motor-cars, yachts, expensive holidays, and security for the future would give myself and a lot of other people a lot of pleasure". Lucan was described by his friends as a shy and taciturn man, but with his tall stature, "luxuriant guardsman's moustache," and masculine pursuits, his exploits made him popular. In September 1966 he unsuccessfully
screen tested for a part in
Woman Times Seven, prompting him to decline a later offer from film producer
Albert R. Broccoli to screen test him for the role of
James Bond. As a professional gambler, Lucan had interests in
thoroughbred horses; in 1968, he paid more in race entry fees than he received in winnings. Following the births of George and Camilla, Veronica suffered
post-natal depression. Lucan became increasingly involved in her mental well-being, and in 1971 took her for treatment at a psychiatric clinic in
Hampstead, where she refused to be admitted. Instead, she agreed to home visits from a psychiatrist and a course of
antidepressants. In July 1972, the family holidayed in
Monte Carlo, but Veronica quickly returned to England, leaving Lucan with their two elder children. The combined pressures of maintaining their finances, the costs of Lucan's
gambling addiction, and Veronica's weakened mental condition took their toll on the marriage; two weeks after a strained family Christmas in 1972, Lucan moved into a small property in Eaton Row. Lady Lucan later described this as the point of their formal separation in January 1973.
Separation Some months later Lucan moved again, to a larger rented flat in nearby Elizabeth Street. Despite an early attempt by his wife at reconciliation, by that point all Lucan wanted from the marriage was
custody of his children. In an effort to demonstrate that Veronica was unfit to look after them, Lucan began to spy on his family (his car was regularly seen parked in Lower Belgrave Street), later employing
private detectives to perform the same task. He also canvassed doctors, who explained that his wife had not "gone mad", but was suffering from depression and anxiety. Lucan told his friends that nobody would work for Veronica – she had sacked Jenkins, the children's long-term nanny, in December 1972. Of the series of nannies employed in the house, one, 26-year-old Stefanja Sawicka, was told by Veronica that Lucan had hit her with a cane and had, on one occasion, pushed her down the stairs. The countess apparently feared for her safety and told Sawicka not to be surprised "if he kills me one day." Sawicka's time at the Lucan household ended late in March 1973. While with two of the children near
Grosvenor Place, she was confronted by Lucan and two private detectives. They told her that the children had been made
wards of court and that she must release them into his custody, which she did. Frances was collected from school later in the day. Veronica applied to the court to have the children returned, but concerned about the case's complexity, the judge set a date for the hearing three months ahead, for June 1973. To defend herself against Lucan's claims about her mental state, Veronica booked herself a four-day stay at the
Priory Clinic in
Roehampton. While it was acknowledged that she still required some psychiatric support, the doctors reported that there was no indication that she was mentally ill. Lucan's case depended on Veronica's being unable to care for the children, but at the hearing he was instead forced to defend his own behaviour toward her. After several weeks of witnesses and protracted arguments
in camera, on the advice of his lawyers he conceded the case. Unimpressed by Lucan's character, Mr Justice Rees awarded custody to Veronica. The earl was allowed access every other weekend. Lucan again began to watch his wife's movements. He recorded some of their telephone conversations with a small
Sony tape recorder and played excerpts to any friends prepared to listen; he also told themand his bank managerthat Veronica had been "spending money like water". Lucan continued to pay her £40 a week and may have cancelled their regular food order with
Harrods. He delayed payment to the milkman andknowing that Veronica was required by the court to employ a live-in nannythe childcare agency. With no income of her own, Veronica took a part-time job in a local hospital. A temporary nanny, Elizabeth Murphy, was befriended by Lucan, who bought her drinks and asked her for information on his wife. He instructed his detective agency to investigate Murphy, looking for evidence that she was failing in her duty of care to his children. This they found; he dispensed with the detective agency's services when they presented him with bills amounting to several hundred pounds. Murphy was later hospitalised with cancer. Another temporary nanny, Christabel Martin, reported strange telephone calls to the house, some with heavy breathing and some from a man asking for non-existent people. Following a series of temporary nannies, Sandra Rivett started work in late 1974.
Gambling Losing the court case proved devastating for Lucan. It had cost him an estimated £20,000; by late 1974, his financial position was dire. As he drank more heavily and started chain-smoking, his friends began to worry. In drunken conversations with some of them, including Aspinall and his mother
Lady Osborne, Lucan discussed murdering his wife.
Greville Howard later gave a statement to the police describing how Lucan had talked of how killing his wife might save him from
bankruptcy, how her body might be disposed of in the
Solent and how he "would never be caught". Lucan borrowed £4,000 from his mother and asked Tucker for a loan of £100,000. Having no luck there, he wrote to Tucker's son, explaining how he wished to "buy" his children from Veronica; the money was not forthcoming. He turned to his friends and acquaintances, asking anyone plausible to loan him money to fund his gambling addiction. The financier
James Goldsmith guaranteed a £5,000 overdraft for him, which for years remained unpaid. Lucan also applied to the discreet Edgware Trust. On request, he supplied details of his income, which was apparently around £12,000 a year from various family trusts. Lucan was required to provide a
surety and received only £3,000 of the £5,000 he asked for. Much to their managers' consternation, his four bank accounts were overdrawn;
Coutts, £2,841;
Lloyds, £4,379;
National Westminster, £1,290;
Midland, £5,667. Even though by then he was playing for much lower stakes than had previously been the case, Lucan's gambling remained completely out of control.
Taki Theodoracopulos, who recalled Lucan as a close friend for more than a decade, lent him £3,000 in cash three nights before the murder. Despite these problems, from late October 1974, Lucan's demeanour appeared to change for the better. His
best man, John Wilbraham, remarked that Lucan's apparent obsession over regaining his children had diminished. While having dinner with his mother he cast aside talk of his family problems and turned instead to politics. On 6 November, he met his uncle John Bevan, apparently in good spirits. Later that day he met 21-year-old Charlotte Andrina Colquhoun, who said that "he seemed very happy, just his usual self, and there was nothing to suggest that he was worried or depressed". He also dined at the Clermont with racing driver
Graham Hill. At the time, casinos could open only between 2:00 pm and 4:00 am, so Lucan often gambled into the early hours of the morning. He took tablets to deal with his
insomnia and therefore usually awoke around lunchtime. On 7 November, though, he broke routine and called his solicitor early in the morning, and at 10:30 am took a call from Colquhoun. They arranged to eat at the Clermont at about 3:00 pm, but Lucan failed to appear. Colquhoun drove past the Clermont and Ladbroke clubs, and past Elizabeth Street, but could not find Lucan's car anywhere. Lucan also failed to arrive for his 1:00 pm lunch appointment with artist
Dominic Elwes and banker Daniel Meinertzhagen, again at the Clermont. At 4:00 pm, Lucan called at a chemist's on Lower Belgrave Street, close to Veronica's home, and asked the pharmacist there to identify a small capsule. It turned out to be
Limbitrol 5, a drug for the treatment of anxiety and depression. Lucan had apparently made several similar visits since he separated from his wife; he never told the pharmacist where he got the drugs. At 4:45 pm, he called a friend, literary agent Michael Hicks-Beach; between 6:30 pm and 7:00 pm, Lucan met with him at Hicks-Beach's flat on Elizabeth Street. Lucan wanted his help with an article on gambling he had been asked to write for an
Oxford University magazine. Lucan drove Hicks-Beach home at about 8:00 pm, not in his
Mercedes-Benz, but in "an old, dark, and scruffy Ford", possibly a
Ford Corsair he borrowed from Michael Stoop several weeks earlier. At 8:30 pm, he called the Clermont to check on a reservation for dinner with Greville Howard and friends. Howard had called him at 5:15 pm and asked if he wished to come to the theatre, but Lucan had declined and made the alternative suggestion to meet at the Clermont at 11:00 pm. He failed to arrive and did not answer his telephone when called. ==Murder of Sandra Rivett==