, 1919 In her teens, Rose became acquainted with her future husband,
Joseph Patrick "Joe" Kennedy, whom she met while their families were vacationing at
Old Orchard Beach in
Maine. He was the elder son of businessman/politician
Patrick Joseph "P.J." Kennedy (a political rival of "Honey Fitz") and Mary Augusta Hickey. Kennedy would go on to court Fitzgerald for more than seven years, much to her father's disapproval. Their nine children were
Joseph Jr. (1915–1944),
John, called "Jack" (1917–1963),
Rose Marie, called "Rosemary" (1918–2005),
Kathleen, called "Kick" (1920–1948),
Eunice (1921–2009),
Patricia (1924–2006),
Robert, called "Bobby" (1925–1968),
Jean (1928–2020), and
Edward, called "Ted" (1932–2009). When Rose was eight months pregnant with the couple's fourth child, Kathleen, she temporarily went back to her parents, returning to Joseph after her father told her divorce was not an option. In turning a blind eye to her husband's affairs, Rose depended heavily on medication.
Ronald Kessler found records for prescription tranquilizers
Seconal,
Placidyl,
Librium, and
Dalmane to relieve Rose's nervousness and stress, and
Lomotil,
Bentyl,
Librax, and
Tagamet for her stomach. According to historian
Doris Kearns Goodwin, "Rose knew what was going on, but, in my judgment, she willed that knowledge out of her mind. She didn’t want to lose her marriage. She didn’t want to lose her husband. She didn’t want to lose that family that she had created. It mattered too much to her. And I think, underneath, she knew Joe didn’t want to lose it, either."
Jacqueline Kennedy described her mother-in-law in her correspondence to Father Joseph Leonard, an Irish priest: "I don't think Jack's mother is too bright – and she would rather say a
rosary than read a book." Kennedy stated that she felt completely fulfilled as a full-time homemaker. In her 1974 autobiography,
Times to Remember, she wrote, "I looked on child rearing not only as a work of love and duty but as a profession that was fully as interesting and challenging as any honorable profession in the world and one that demanded the best I could bring to it..... What greater aspiration and challenge are there for a mother than the hope of raising a great son or daughter?" According to one of her servants, Frank Saunders, she was self-centered, stingy, prudish, and often spiteful. ==Later years and death==