Ruqaiya became Empress consort of the Mughal Empire at the age of fourteen years following her husband's accession to the throne in 1556. She remained childless throughout her marriage but was entrusted the upbringing of Akbar and Mariam-uz-Zamani's grandson, Prince Khurram (the future emperor
Shah Jahan).
Jagat Gosain's son Khurram, considered to be auspicious as per his astrological signs was insisted by Akbar to be raised under his care than at Salim's palace and therefore was raised in Akbar's palace. He was placed under the care of Ruqaiya Sultan who resided in Akbar's harem and she is stated to have raised Khurram affectionately. Jahangir noted in his
memoirs that Ruqaiya had loved his son, Khurram, "a thousand times more than if he had been her own [son]." Khurram remained with her until he had turned almost 14. After Akbar died in 1605, the young prince was then, finally, allowed to return to his father's household, and thus, returned to the care of his mother, Jagat Gosain whom he cared for and loved immensely. She also raised Shah Jahan's first daughter,
Parhez Banu Begum. She remained one of Akbar's chief consorts from the time of their marriage in 1557 until his death in 1605. This was primarily due to her exalted lineage, being Mirza Hindal's daughter, a Mughal princess as well as Akbar's first wife. In 1607,
Jahangir organized a hunting trip to Kabul accompanied by his harem. Ruqaiya during this trip, for the first time paid homage to her father's mausoleum, Hindal Mirza, and later was also buried alongside him at the
Gardens of Babur in Kabul. In the same year,
Sher Afghan Khan, the
jagirdar of
Burdwan died and his widowed wife, Mehr-un-Nissa (later Empress
Nur Jahan) was summoned to Agra by Jahangir for providing her protection and was a lady in waiting to Ruqaiya Sultan. Mehr-un-Nissa served as lady-in-waiting to the Ruqaiya Begum for over four years. The relationship that grew up between Ruqaiya and Mehr-un-Nissa appears to have been a tender one. The
Dutch merchant and travel writer,
Pieter van den Broecke, described their relationship in his Hindustan Chronicle: "This Begum [Ruqaiya] conceived a great affection for Mehr-un-Nissa [Nur Jahan]; she loved her more than others and always kept her in her company." ==Death==