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Date of observance Yahrzeit is typically observed on the anniversary according to the
Hebrew calendar of the date of death of an
immediate family member or outstanding individual. Some
authorities hold that when an individual was not buried within two days of their death, the first Yahrzeit is instead held on the anniversary of their burial. There are also exceptions when the date falls on
Rosh Ḥodesh or in a leap year of the Hebrew calendar:
Common practices When commemorated by an immediate relative, the day is marked by two main practices: reciting the Mourner's Kaddish, and lighting the
Yahrzeit candle, which is kept burning for twenty-four hours. Other customs including being
called up to the public reading of the
Torah or reciting the
Haftara on the preceding
Shabbat, and sponsoring a synagogue
Kiddush in honour of the deceased. A
lightbulb by the name of the deceased may be lit on the synagogue's Yahrzeit board. Historically, fasting was also a common practice. According to some sources, the Yahrzeit candle holds
Kabbalistic significance.
Aaron Berechiah of Modena likens the burning wick in the candle to the soul in the body, citing the
Proverb "man's soul is the candle of God." He notes furthermore that the
numerical value of ('burning candle') is equivalent to that of ('the
Shekhinah'). Other scholars posit that the candle-lighting tradition may have Christian origins. Some communities, especially Sephardim in the
Land of Israel, were initially opposed to reciting the Mourner's Kaddish after the first eleven months following a death, contending that it would cast a negative light on the departed.
Isaac Luria offered an alternative perspective, explaining that "while the orphan's Kaddish within the eleven months helps the soul to pass from
Gehinnom to
Gan Eden, the Yahrzeit Kaddish elevates the soul every year to a higher sphere in paradise."
Menasseh ben Israel also adopts this perspective.
Ḥasidic Jews traditionally
celebrate the Yahrzeit of their respective rabbis with song, dance, and general rejoicing, resulting in a shift from the originally mournful nature of the celebration to an occasion of joyous festivity. The
Mitnaggedim vehemently objected to this innovation. ==Notable Yahrzeits==