High school and college Messing attended
Wheatley High School, where he started playing soccer. He graduated from
Harvard University in 1972 after playing on the school's men's soccer team.
NASL He made his debut with the Cosmos in a May 20, 1974 exhibition game with Irish club
Finn Harps. Messing attracted attention by posing in the nude for a photo spread in the December 1974 issue of
Viva magazine, for which he was paid $5,000 ($ in current dollar terms). He joked that these photos gave the New York Cosmos more "exposure" than they'd ever received from the media up to that time. The Cosmos management was not pleased, and cut Messing from the team on the grounds that he had violated a morals clause in his contract. The Stompers lasted only a single season, following which Messing moved to the
Rochester Lancers.
MISL When the
Major Indoor Soccer League began its first season in 1978–1979, the
New York Arrows were essentially the Rochester Lancers in different uniforms. As such, Messing became the starting Arrows goalkeeper through the team's six years of existence. Messing became the league's dominant keeper, being named to the MISL All Star team in 1979, 1980 and 1981. He was the championship MVP in 1979. When the Arrows fired coach
Don Popovic in February 1983, the team named Messing, who was sidelined with an injury, as the interim coach. After his retirement, Messing was briefly part-owner of the ill-fated
New York Express, which played the first half of the 1986-1987 MISL season before folding. ==Awards and honors==