Most of what is known about Qian's early life relies on an essay written by his wife
Yang Jiang. Born in
Wuxi, Qian Zhongshu was the son of Qian Jibo (), a conservative
Confucian scholar,
landed gentry, and Chinese language professor at
Tsinghua,
St. John's University, and National Central University (Nanking), respectively. By family tradition, Qian Zhongshu grew up under the care of his eldest uncle, who did not have a son. Qian was initially named Yangxian (; "respect the ancients"), with the
courtesy name Zheliang (; "sagacious and upright"). However, when he was one year old, in accordance with a tradition of
zhuazhou, practiced in many parts of China, he was given a few objects laid out in front of him for his "grabbing"; he grabbed a book. His uncle thusly renamed him Zhongshu, literally "fond of books," while Yangxian became his intimate name. Qian was a rather talkative child. His father later changed his courtesy name to Mocun (, "to keep silent"), in the hope that he would talk less. Both Qian's name and courtesy name forecasted his future life. While he remained talkative when talking about literature with friends, he kept silent most of the time on politics and social activities. Qian was indeed very fond of books. When he was young, his uncle often brought him along to teahouses during the day. There, Qian was left alone to read storybooks on folklore and historical events, which he would repeat to his cousins upon returning home. At the age of 6, Qian went to Qinshi primary school and stayed home for less than half a year due to illness. At the age of 7, Qian studied in a private school of a relative's family. Due to inconvenience, he quit school a year later and was taught by his uncle. When Qian was 11, he entered the first grade at Donglin Elementary School, and his uncle died this year. He continued living with his widowed aunt, even though their living conditions drastically worsened as her family's fortunes dwindled. Under the strict tutelage of his father, Qian mastered
classical Chinese. At the age of 14, Qian left home to attend Taowu Middle School, an English-language missionary school in
Suzhou. One of his few friends was the budding Sinologist and comparatist
Achilles Fang. Qian also frequently cut classes, though he more than made up for this in Tsinghua's large library, which he boasted of having "read through." In 1932, he met
Yang Jiang. In 1935, Qian received a
Boxer Indemnity Scholarship to further his studies abroad. Together with his wife, Qian headed for the
University of Oxford. After spending two years at
Exeter College, Oxford, he received a
Bachelor of Letters. Shortly after his daughter Qian Yuan () was born in England in 1937, he studied for one more year in the
University of Paris in France. In 1938, he returned to China and was appointed as a full professor at Tsinghua University, which, due to the war, had relocated to Kunming, Yunnan province and become part of
National Southwestern Associated University. In 1939, after Qian returned to Shanghai to visit his relatives, he directly went to Hunan to take care of his sick father and temporarily left Southwestern Associated University. In 1941, Qian was temporarily trapped in Shanghai. Qian consciously kept a distance from the mass media and political figures and played an important role in
digitizing Chinese classics late in his life. Readers kept visiting the secluded scholar, and an anecdote goes that Qian when approached by a British admirer, remarked: "Is it necessary for one to know the hen if one loves the eggs it lays?" Qian was hospitalized in 1994, and his daughter also became ill in 1995. On March 4, 1997, Qian's daughter died of
cancer. On December 19, 1998, Qian died in
Beijing. == Former residence ==