The
music video, directed by
Chris Applebaum, whose best friend and love interest (Shane Haboucha) is attracted to her mother, mentioning times she caught his attention: by the pool (where Stacy is shown wearing red, heart-shaped sunglasses as a reference to the poster of the 1962 film
Lolita), receiving a massage on the lawn and during an imaginary strip tease in the dining room. It features several sexual innuendos such as wet dreams and adolescent gratification. By the end of the video, Stacy walks in on her unnamed friend in the bathroom as he watches her mother wearing a red bikini in the backyard pool (a direct reference to
Fast Times at Ridgemont High). It closes on the door with an "Ocupado" sign hanging from the doorknob and Stacy laughing. "We looked at a lot of treatments and some directors were trying to be kind of arty and subtle with it, but Chris Applebaum went completely for the jugular," said Schlesinger. The group had previously hoped to get
Paulina Porizkova (Ocasek's then-wife) for the role. The clip was shot in Los Angeles in late May 2003. The video was first sent to television in July 2003. Fountains of Wayne had asked Ocasek to be in the video for the song. Schlesinger explains that while Ocasek claimed that he "politely declined", he actually just never responded to the request. There are several references to the Cars in the video: a license plate reads "I ♥ RIC", a reference to Ocasek; one of the boys in the opening scene has dark hair, sunglasses, and clothes such that he looks like an adolescent version of Ocasek; the trademark
Elliot Easton "bouncing" (at approximately 1:15 into the video) and hairdo as he plays his guitar for the Cars; and the re-creation of a scene from the movie
Fast Times at Ridgemont High, which featured the Cars' "
Moving in Stereo". Further links to the Cars and new wave music are given by the magazine
Nu Wave that is featured in the video, the
Roland Juno-6 keyboard (a synthesizer of the 1980s), and the record sleeve showing 'Stacy's Mom' in a car. The video reached No. 1 on VH1's
VSpot Top 20 Countdown. ==Track listings==