Virginia Dell Cassidy was born in
Bodcaw, Arkansas. She was the only child of James Eldridge Cassidy (1898–1957), the town iceman (later a grocer), and Edith (née Grisham) Cassidy (1901–1968), a nurse. Her family moved to
Hope, Arkansas, when she was a toddler. During her high school years, she worked as a waitress at a local restaurant. Following her graduation from high school, Virginia moved to
Shreveport, Louisiana, to study to be a nurse like her mother. During her training in Shreveport, she met her first husband,
William Jefferson Blythe Jr., whom she married in a civil ceremony in 1943, just before he shipped out for
World War II military duty. Upon completion of her training, she returned to
Hope, Arkansas. When her husband was discharged after the war, he picked her up and they moved for four months to
Chicago,
Illinois. Unbeknownst to her, the marriage was bigamous, because he was still legally married to his fourth wife. She moved back to her parents' house while she and William were in the process of getting a new home in the Hope area. While William was on his way back to Hope, he was killed in an automobile accident, three months before the birth of their son,
Bill III. Virginia later spent time in
New Orleans, Louisiana training to be a nurse anesthetist. In 1950, Virginia married car salesman
Roger Clinton Sr., the father of her younger son,
Roger Clinton Jr. Roger Sr. was an alcoholic and was physically and mentally abusive to Virginia and her boys. He did not adopt Bill, but Bill took his surname legally in 1962. He told his mother that it would be easier if they all had the same last name. Roger Sr. and Virginia divorced in 1962 but remarried each other a few months later. ==Last years==