Paulding was married to Maria Rhinelander (1784–1851). Together, they were the parents of: • Frederick W. Paulding (1811–1858), the father of Julia Rhinelander Paulding who married Col.
Richard Irving Dodge. He purchased a summer estate in the Tarrytown area, where he was born, and built a mansion there, designed by
Alexander Jackson Davis in 1838. He called the house Knoll, but it was often referred to as "Paulding's folly" because of its unusual design that included fanciful turrets, pointed arches, and an asymmetrical outline, all of which was unlike most homes of the time. It was later renamed
Lyndhurst and donated by its last owner, railroad tycoon
Jay Gould's daughter
Anna Gould, to the
National Trust for Historic Preservation. The estate was designated a
National Historic Landmark in 1966. He died in his Knoll mansion on February 11, 1854, and was buried in the Paulding family vault at the
Old Dutch Burying Ground in
Sleepy Hollow, New York.
Legacy Paulding Avenue in
The Bronx is named after him. ==References==