If Only You Were Lonely

If Only You Were Lonely was recorded in September and October 2005 at Water Music in Hoboken, New Jersey, with producer David Bendeth. Dan Korneff and John Bender served as engineers, and both did digital editing, alongside Kato Khandwala. Ted Young aided them as assistant engineer. Korneff provided additional guitar production, and set up mixing, which was done by Bendeth and assistant Isaiah Abolin at Sound on Sound Studios and Right Track Studios, both in New York City in October 2005. Ted Jensen mastered the recordings at Sterling Sound. ==Music and lyrics==

Musically, If Only You Were Lonely features a sound similar to that on The Silence in Black and White, the band's previous album. Michael Endelman of Entertainment Weekly said the band "slickly synthesizes a bunch of post-’90s micro-genres" on the album. Scott Shetler of Slant Magazine explained: "The band again relies on slightly tempered verses, explosive choruses, and heavy guitars, rarely deviating from the formula." The album features more triple-guitar harmonies than its predecessor, drawing comparisons to English heavy metal band Iron Maiden, and some tracks, such as the album's opener "This Is Who We Are," contain elements of punk rock. Despite drawing influence from heavy metal and punk rock, the album features fewer "blood-curdling screams" employed by guitarist Casey Calvert than its predecessor, which are "relegated mainly to solos near the end of songs." ==Release and promotion==

In October 2005, Hawthorne Heights toured the UK with labelmates Bayside, Silverstein and Spitalfield; it led into a two-month tour of the US with those same acts, plus Aiden, dubbed the Never Sleep Again Tour. On November 23, 2005, If Only You Were Lonely was announced for release in three months' time; the album's track listing was posted online ten days later. "Saying Sorry" was made available for streaming solely on Christmas Day and Christmas Eve 2005 through their Myspace profile. This Is Who We Are, the band's first video album, was released on January 10, 2006; it included footage from the Never Sleep Again Tour, which saw the debut of three new songs, namely "Light Sleeper", "Where Can I Stab Myself in the Ears", and "This Is Who We Are". In January 2006, Hawthorne Heights embarked on a UK tour with Still Remains, Aiden, and Bullet for My Valentine. A music video was released for "Saying Sorry" via AOL Music on January 16, 2006; it was released to radio on January 31, 2006. In February and March 2006, the group went on a tour of the US alongside Emery, Anberlin, June and Bleed the Dream. From March to May 2006, the group toured with Fall Out Boy on their North American arena tour, titled the Black Clouds and Underdogs Tour. On May 25, 2006, the music video for "This Is Who We Are" was posted online. They appeared at The Bamboozle festival; following this, "Pens and Needles" was released to radio on June 13, 2006. In July, the band went on a tour of Canada alongside Story of the Year and Anberlin. Throughout July and August 2006, the band performed a number of free intimate shows; fans could gain entry by signing up with Rockcorps. On August 7, it was announced that the band had left Victory Records, citing a lack of royalty payment. The following month, they appeared at the Bumbershoot festival. From September to November, the band headlined the 2006 edition of the Nintendo Fusion Tour. "I Am on Your Side" impacted radio on October 10. In June and July 2007, the bands went on a U.S. tour with support from From First to Last, Secondhand Serenade, Brighten and Powerspace. Following this, the group appeared on the 2007 edition of Warped Tour. In November and December, the band went on a headlining US tour dubbed Wintour. They were supported by Escape the Fate, Amber Pacific, the A.K.A.s and the Secret Handshake. Music videos were made for three tracks from the album. The video for "This Is Who We Are" was filmed at the Minneapolis stop of the Black Clouds Tour on April 14, 2006. The band later filmed a music video for "Pens and Needles" in Miami. The video was directed by Dale "Rage" Resteghini. Another music video was filmed for "Saying Sorry". On March 4, 2021, the band announced If Only You Were Lonely XV, a re-recording and re-imagining of If Only You Were Lonely in honor of its 15 year anniversary. The album was released in April of that year. The band also announced The Lonely World Tour, where they will play the album in full for its 20 year anniversary, supported by letlive. and Creeper. ==Commercial performance==

If Only You Were Lonely debuted at #3 on the Billboard 200 and #1 on the Top Independent Albums chart, spending a total of 17 weeks on the former. It is the band's highest charting album to date. The album was certified Gold by the RIAA on March 24, 2016. ==Critical reception==

The album received mixed reviews. John D. Luerssen of AllMusic wrote: "The outfit's three-axe attack coupled with the distinctive pipes of J.T. Woodruff find Hawthorne Heights able to go where peers like Fall Out Boy just can't. Be it the downright winsome lilt of 'Saying Sorry' or the riotous punk of 'This Is Who We Are' -- painted with blood-curdling screams -- the group manages to walk the fine line between art and its aspirations of world domination with its credibility in check." The New York Times wrote: "Too many of the songs feel flat, despite the stormy guitars and stormier lyrics." Some critics questioned what they perceived to be the band's apparent attempt to attract fans from different audiences, and some stated their belief that the album would only appeal to listeners in a niche demographic. Scott Shetler of Slant Magazine wrote, "Hawthorne Heights deserve credit for connecting with their target audience, angsty teens for whom every minor event in life is a crisis. For that crowd, this is a good record. For everybody else, it’s essentially irrelevant." Alternative Press wrote: "Lonely will buy Hawthorne Heights a few more minutes beyond the 15 they've already received. Here's to hoping they'll use that time to think outside of the box a little more when they write LP3." ==Track listing==

All arrangements by Hawthorne Heights and David Bendeth. ==Personnel==

Personnel per booklet. Hawthorne Heights • JT Woodruff – lead vocals, guitar • Micah Carli – lead guitar • Casey Calvert – rhythm guitar, screamed vocals • Matt Ridenour – bass guitar, backing vocals • Eron Bucciarelli – drums Additional musicians • John Bender – additional backing vocals • The Hawthorne Gang – additional vocals (tracks 8 and 11) • Sebastian Davin – piano (track 12) Design • Paul Friemel – art direction, layout, original layout concept • Dave Hill – photos • Neil Visel – photo assistant • Selena Salfen – band photography • DoubleJ – original layout concept Production • David Bendeth – producer, mixing • Dan Korneff – engineer, digital editing, additional guitar production, mix setup • John Bender – digital editing, engineer • Ted Young – assistant engineer • Isaiah Abolin – mixing assistant • Kato Khandwala – digital editing • Ted Jensen – mastering ==Charts==

Weekly charts Year-end charts ==Certifications==