, where
Julia Stanley first met Alfred Lennon Lennon first saw Julia Stanley at the Trocadero club, a converted cinema on Camden Road, Liverpool. Although he did not speak to her at the time, Lennon later saw Julia again in
Sefton Park, where he had gone with a friend to meet girls. Lennon, who was dressed in a bowler hat and holding a cigarette holder, saw "this little waif" sitting on a wrought-iron bench. The 14-year-old Stanley said that his hat looked "silly," to which the 15-year-old Lennon replied that Stanley looked "lovely," and sat down next to her. Stanley asked Lennon to take off his hat, which he promptly did and threw it straight into the lake. Alfred was a musician, and specialised in impersonating
Louis Armstrong and
Al Jolson. He played the
banjo, as did Julia, although neither pursued music professionally (Julia would later teach their son how to play the banjo). They spent their days together walking around Liverpool and dreaming of what they would do in the future—such as opening a shop, pub, café, or a club. In March 1930, he took a job as
bellboy on board the
Cunard passenger liner SS
Montrose. He kept in touch with Julia, writing letters and meeting whenever he docked in Liverpool. Alfred was later offered a job on a whaling ship for two years—which would have earned him enough money to buy a house—but turned it down on discovering that Julia's father had arranged it, in order to keep him away from Julia. On 3 December 1938, 11 years after they had first met, Julia married Alfred after proposing to him. They were married in the Bolton Street Register Office, and on the marriage certificate Julia stated her occupation as 'cinema usherette', even though she had never been one. Julia's family were absent from the wedding, but Alfred's brother Sydney acted as a witness. They spent their
honeymoon eating at Reece's restaurant in Clayton Square (which is where his son would later celebrate after his marriage to
Cynthia Powell), and then went to a cinema. On their wedding night, Julia stayed at the Stanleys' house and Alfred returned to his
rooming house. Julia's family were opposed to Alfred: her father said he was "certainly not middle class," and her sister
Mimi was particularly unimpressed by him. Julia's father demanded concrete evidence that he could financially support Julia, but Alfred's only idea was to sign on as a
Merchant Navy bellboy on a ship bound for the
Mediterranean. He later worked on ocean liners that travelled between the Greek islands, North Africa and the West Indies. Whilst away he graduated from bellboy to steward, and on his return to Liverpool moved into the Stanley home in Newcastle Road. He auditioned for local theatre managers as a 'ship's entertainer,' but had no success, and so returned to sea. ==Birth of John Lennon and disappearance==