and with the then current grave site of Betsy Ross. While Griscom was apprenticed to
upholsterer William Webster, she met John Ross, a nephew of
George Ross Jr, a signer of the
United States Declaration of Independence. John's parents were Sarah Leach and the Rev. Aeneas Ross, a
Church of England (later
Episcopal)
priest and assistant
rector at the historic city parish of
Christ Church. Griscom and Ross eloped in 1773, marrying at Hugg's Tavern in
Gloucester City, New Jersey. The marriage caused a split from her Griscom family and meant her expulsion from the Quaker congregation. The young couple soon started their own upholstery business and later joined Christ Church, where their fellow congregants occasionally included visiting
colony of Virginia militia regimental commander, colonel, and soon-to-be-general
George Washington (of the newly organized
Continental Army) and his family from their home Anglican parish of
Christ Church in
Alexandria, Virginia, near his
Mount Vernon estate on the
Potomac River, along with many other visiting notaries and delegates in future years to the soon-to-be-convened
Continental Congress and the political/military leadership of the colonial rebellion. The 24-year-old Elizabeth ("Betsy") continued working in the upholstery business repairing uniforms and making tents, blankets, and stuffed paper tube cartridges with musket balls for prepared packaged ammunition in 1779 for the
Continental Army. There is speculation that Ross was the "beautiful young widow" who distracted
Carl von Donop in
Mount Holly, New Jersey, after the
Battle of Iron Works Hill, thus keeping his forces out of the crucial "turning-of-the-tide"
Battle of Trenton on the morning of December 26, 1776, in which
Hessian soldiers were defeated after the
crossing of the Delaware River. On June 15, 1777, she married her second husband, mariner Joseph Ashburn. In 1780, Ashburn's ship was captured by a
Royal Navy frigate and he was charged with treason (for being of British ancestry—
naturalization to American colonial citizenship was not recognized) and imprisoned at Old Mill Prison in
Plymouth, England. During this time, their first daughter, Zilla, died at the age of nine months and their second daughter, Eliza, was born. The couple had five daughters: Clarissa, Susanna, Jane, Rachel, and Harriet (who died in infancy). With the birth of their second daughter Susanna in 1786, they moved to a larger house on Philadelphia's Second Street, settling down to a peaceful post-war existence, as Philadelphia prospered as the temporary national capital (1790–1800) of the newly independent United States of America, with the first president,
George Washington; his vice president,
John Adams; and the convening members of the new federal government and the
U.S. Congress. In 1793, her mother, father, and sister Deborah Griscom Bolton (1743–1793) all died in another severe epidemic of
yellow fever, a disease found in the 19th century to be spread by infected mosquitoes. After two decades of poor health, John Claypoole died in 1817. Ross continued the upholstery business for 10 more years. while Susanna's older sister Clarissa (1785–1864) took over their mother's business back in the city. ==Death and burials==