Thomas Wentworth, Earl of Strafford In 1630; while Carey was a boy, his grandfather, his father and his eldest half-brother were staunch supporters of
Thomas Wentworth, later Earl of Strafford, who was appointed
Lord Deputy of Ireland in 1632. About 1635 Carey's half-brother
James, later the 3rd Earl, married Strafford's sister Elizabeth. Their eldest son, the future 4th Earl of Roscommon, was named "Wentworth". Strafford, however, also had powerful enemies and was impeached by the English Parliament in November 1640 and after this failed, a bill of
attainder was brought against him, which was passed in May 1641 and signed by the king on 10 May. Strafford was executed on 12 May 1641 on Tower Hill. Carey's grandfather James died in March 1641 and was succeeded by his eldest son, Robert, Carey's father, as the 2nd Earl of Roscommon.
Irish War The
Irish Rebellion of 1641 broke out on 23 October 1641. The 2nd Earl of Roscommon died on 27 August 1642 in
Dublin. and was succeeded by his eldest son
James Dillon, 3rd Earl of Roscommon, Carey's halfbrother. During the
English Civil War, both Dillon brothers were staunch Royalists: James, who died in 1649, was posthumously listed in Cromwell's
Act for the Settlement of Ireland 1652 as one of the leaders of the
Royalist cause in Ireland who were excluded from
pardon, and thus liable to
forfeiture of their estates. As a younger son with his livelihood to earn, in the war-torn Ireland of the 1640s and 1650s, a military career was an obvious choice for him: he was made a captain by the age of seventeen. . Pepys was a friend of Carey Dillon in the 1660s.
Pepys's Diary Samuel Pepys first mentions "Colonel Dillon" in his famous
Great Diary in 1660. He evidently liked him, calling him "a very merry and witty companion". In the early 1660s one of Pepys's closest friends was a young
clergyman called Daniel Butler (nicknamed "Monsieur l'Impertinent", apparently because he never stopped talking). He was probably, like Dillon, an Irishman. Shortly afterwards he went to Ireland, apparently at Dillon's urging. Pepys admired both of Butler's sisters, especially Frances (nicknamed "la belle Boteler"), whom he thought was one of the greatest beauties in London. Dillon courted Frances, and matters proceeded as far as an
engagement, but this was broken off in 1662, apparently after a violent quarrel between Dillon and Frances's brother "Monsieur l'Impertinent", who complained of Dillon's "knavery" to him. In the summer of 1668 Dillon apparently renewed his proposal of marriage – Pepys saw him and Frances riding in a carriage together – but it seems that Frances declined his offer. It is not known whether Frances ever married. Although Samuel Pepys always called him "Colonel Dillon" in his diary, he was apparently only a lieutenant until 1684, when he became a major, and subsequently a colonel.
Howard Duel Following the
Restoration of Charles II, Dillon entered politics, sitting in the
Irish House of Commons as MP for
Banagher in the Parliament of 1661–1666. His career was almost ruined in 1662 when he acted as second to Colonel Thomas Howard (a younger brother of
Charles Howard, 1st Earl of Carlisle) in his notorious
duel with
Henry Jermyn, 1st Baron Dover (Howard and Dover being rivals for the affections of the notoriously promiscuous
Anna Talbot, Countess of Shrewsbury). Howard left Lord Dover for dead, and Dillon killed Dover's second, Giles Rawlings, a Gentleman of the
Privy Purse to the Duke of York. Dillon and Howard fled from London, but later returned to stand trial. As was usual in affairs of honour, they were both acquitted, as killing a man in a duel, although counted as murder in a court of law, was then generally regarded as being expected of a man who wished to preserve his honour.
Political career This check to his career was temporary, and after 1670 his rise in Irish public life was rapid. He was sworn a member of the
Privy Council of Ireland in 1673, and also became Master of the
Irish Mint, Commissary-General of the Horse of Ireland, Surveyor-General for Customs and Excise in Ireland, and a Governor of the
Royal Hospital Kilmainham. In 1685, on the death of his nephew, the
poet Wentworth Dillon, 4th Earl of Roscommon, he succeeded as the 5th Earl of Roscommon.
Kilkenny affair The following year Lord Roscommon, as he was now, clashed bitterly with
Richard Talbot, 1st Earl of Tyrconnell, the rising
Roman Catholic Royal favourite. Tyrconnell, as Lieutenant-General of the
Irish Army, had removed all the
Protestant officers of the regiment stationed at
Kilkenny. Roscommon, with it seems considerable justification, challenged his legal right to do so, and when the matter came before the
Lord Lieutenant of Ireland,
Lord Clarendon, Roscommon called Tyrconnell a liar to his face: this was a shrewd blow since Tyrconnell had the unfortunate nickname "Lying Dick Talbot". The "Kilkenny affair" caused something of a furore in Ireland, but did not damage Tyrconnell's standing at the English Court. == Marriage and children ==