Trey MacDougal Trey MacDougal (
Kyle MacLachlan) is a successful physician from a wealthy, upper-class family of Scottish heritage who becomes Charlotte's first husband. The two meet when Charlotte falls in the street and is nearly struck by a taxi carrying Trey, who exits the vehicle to help her. Their romantic encounter quickly leads to a relationship, and despite not being a virgin, Charlotte decides to abstain from sex until marriage. After only a month of dating, Trey proposes, and Charlotte accepts. On the night before their wedding, an intoxicated Charlotte visits Trey. They attempt to have sex, only for her to discover that he suffers from
erectile dysfunction. Though uncertain, she goes through with the wedding following reassurance from Carrie. On their honeymoon, they are unable to consummate the marriage, leading to emotional and sexual strain. The couple later enters therapy, where Trey is diagnosed with a
Madonna–whore complex. Though they make some progress, Trey ultimately suggests that emotional compatibility is more important than physical intimacy, which frustrates Charlotte. The relationship deteriorates further, culminating in Charlotte impulsively kissing the family’s gardener at their estate. Trey is hurt by the act but acknowledges his own failings, and they agree to separate. After Charlotte moves out, Trey becomes more sexually interested in her, and they begin a renewed physical relationship, engaging in spontaneous encounters. Charlotte challenges Trey to commit to a full reconciliation, which leads to their reunion and an improved sex life. They soon begin trying to conceive. Struggles with
infertility lead Charlotte to explore
in vitro fertilization and
adoption, but Trey expresses reluctance. Tensions escalate when Trey’s mother, Bunny MacDougal, disapproves of
international adoption, leading to a public argument. Trey later informs Charlotte that he no longer wishes to have children, preferring a simpler life. Charlotte is devastated and attempts to suppress her disappointment, but the marriage grows increasingly strained. Trey moves into a separate bedroom, and the couple reaches an unspoken acknowledgment of their impending divorce. As a final gesture, Trey agrees to appear with Charlotte in a
House & Garden photo shoot featuring their newly redecorated
Park Avenue apartment on the
Upper East Side. He ultimately grants Charlotte ownership of the apartment. Though his mother attempts to contest this during the divorce proceedings, Trey sends a telegram from
Scotland instructing Bunny to cease her interference and to give Charlotte whatever she wants.
Harry Goldenblatt Harry Goldenblatt (
Evan Handler) is introduced as Charlotte's divorce attorney during her separation from Trey MacDougal. Initially chosen because Charlotte believes she will not be distracted by his appearance—especially compared to his more conventionally attractive colleague—Harry eventually expresses romantic interest in her. Although Charlotte is initially put off by Harry’s physical appearance and somewhat unrefined manners, she is surprised by their strong sexual compatibility and begins a physical relationship with him. Despite her original intention to keep the relationship casual, Charlotte develops emotional feelings for Harry, who is portrayed as kind, intelligent, and deeply devoted to her. At first, she attempts to mold him into her ideal partner but eventually accepts and falls in love with him as he is. Their relationship is tested when Harry reveals he made a promise to his late mother to marry within the Jewish faith. Charlotte decides to convert from
Episcopalianism to
Judaism, enthusiastically immersing herself in the process. Conflict arises when Charlotte, frustrated that Harry has not proposed, confronts him and implies that he is fortunate to be with someone like her. Offended, Harry ends the relationship. Weeks later, the two reunite at a singles’ event at the
synagogue, where Charlotte admits her mistakes and declares that she wants to be with him regardless of whether they marry. Harry responds by proposing, and they marry soon after. The couple begins trying to conceive, but Charlotte encounters fertility issues similar to those in her previous marriage. They pursue adoption, and in the series finale, it is revealed that their application to adopt a baby girl from
China has been approved. In
Sex and the City (2008), Charlotte and Harry are happily raising their adopted daughter, Lily. Charlotte unexpectedly becomes pregnant and gives birth to a second daughter, Rose. In
Sex and the City 2 (2010), Charlotte briefly suspects Harry of having an affair with their attractive nanny, but her concerns prove unfounded. In
And Just Like That..., Charlotte and Harry remain happily married and are raising their now-teenage children in
New York City. Charlotte’s friends are surprised to learn that she and Harry maintain an active sex life. When their younger child comes out as
nonbinary and adopts the name "Rock," both parents are portrayed as supportive and affirming. ==
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