In February 1637, Dilras was betrothed to Prince Muhi-ud-din (later known as Aurangzeb), the third son of the reigning Mughal emperor
Shah Jahan and his beloved wife
Mumtaz Mahal. The marriage proposal was put forth by Shah Jahan and was accepted by Dilras' father which led to their betrothal. Aurangzeb was lovingly called by the Emperor from the
Deccan, where he was campaigning, and arrived at
Agra on 15 April 1637 for his wedding. As decided by the imperial court astrologers, their marriage ceremony was held four hours before dawn, amid lavish and grand celebrations and took place at Shahnawaz Khan's mansion. The newly married couple spent more than three happy months at Agra with the Emperor before taking their leave for the Deccan on 4 September 1637, where Aurangzeb was serving as
viceroy. and was her father's favourite daughter. She was amongst the highest ranked figures at the Mughal court unlike her husband's secondary wives, who were very unpopular at court. Pertaining to her character, she seems to have been a proud and self-willed woman and her husband stood in some awe of her. She was reputed to have been short-tempered, and was, says Aurangzeb, a woman of "extreme imperiousness, but to the end of her life I continued to love her and never once did I wound her feelings." Dilras' proud nature did not create problems in her marriage as Aurangzeb always acted humbly with his haughty and imperious wife. From all accounts it appears that Dilras shared several character traits with her husband. Both of them were strong-willed, pious and comparatively indifferent to the normal scheme of material values. However, whereas Aurangzeb was a staunch
Sunni, Dilras Begum was a devout
Shia. Safavid Shias grew in Aurangzeb's reign became even more influential than ever in the Mughal empire and their military leaders led almost all of Aurangzeb's successful military campaigns. Aurangzeb's other marriages to his two secondary wives were meaningless. As a result, these two inferior wives, though they produced four more children for him, remained isolated from their husband. She retained her influence over her husband till the end of her life and always remained his favourite as well as his chief consort. Even after her untimely death, her position at court, in the palace, and in her husband's life was not taken by either of his secondary wives. Thus, Dilras was never replaced and no empress ruled Aurangzeb's palace. During the course of their twenty years of marriage, the imperial couple became parents of five children: •
Shahzadi Zeb-un-Nissa Begum (15 February 1638 – 26 May 1702) died unmarried. • Shahzadi
Zinat-un-Nissa Begum (5 October 1643 – 7 May 1721) acted as the First Lady (
Padshah Begum) of the empire during Aurangzeb's reign, she died unmarried. • Shahzadi
Zubdat-un-Nissa Begum (2 September 1651 – 17 February 1707) married her
first cousin, Prince
Siphir Shikoh, son of her uncle,
Dara Shikoh; had issue. •
Shahzada
Muhammad Azam Shah Shahi Ali Jah (28 June 1653 – 8 June 1707), briefly succeeded his father as Mughal emperor, married his first cousin, Princess
Jahanzeb Banu, a daughter of Dara Shikoh; had issue. • Shahzada
Sultan Muhammad Akbar (11 September 1657 – 31 March 1706) married his cousin, Princess Salima, a granddaughter of Dara Shikoh; had issue. ==Death and aftermath==