Elizabeth Stafford's parents were staunch Protestants, and on 29 March 1555, during the reign of the Catholic
Mary I, they took their two children, Elizabeth and Edward, in the company of a cousin,
Elizabeth Sandys, into exile. In 1556 they were in
Geneva, where on 4 January 1556 the Protestant reformer,
John Calvin, stood as godfather to their youngest son, John Stafford, and where Sir William Stafford died, and was buried on 5 May of that year. On 26 October 1568, Elizabeth Stafford, identified as one of the Queen's
chamberers, was given a black satin gown with black velvet edgings or guards. She received £20 yearly on St Andrew's Day with fabric for her livery clothes of russet satin edged with black velvet. Elizabeth I gave her twenty yards of velvet for a gown on 6 November 1573 "agaynst her Mariage to Mr Drurye". In 1578, during a progress through
East Anglia, the Queen stayed at the manor house
Hawstead Place at
Hawstead which Elizabeth Stafford's husband, Sir
Sir William Drury, had recently rebuilt. According to
Thomas Churchyard, ‘a costly and delicat dinner’ was put on for the occasion, and tradition has it that during the visit the Queen dropped a silver-handled fan into the moat. Both Lady Drury and her husband exchanged
New Year's gifts with the Queen in 1579, Sir William's gift being a pair of black velvet mittens, while Lady Drury's gift was an embroidered forepart of cloth of silver. In 1587 Sir William Drury was appointed a receiver for the
Exchequer in
Essex,
Hertfordshire and
Middlesex, but fled to the continent in July of that year owing the Exchequer £5000. How Drury incurred the debt is unclear. By 1588, through the influence of
Lord Willoughby, then in command of English forces in the
Low Countries, Drury was appointed Governor of
Bergen-op-Zoom in the Netherlands, but was replaced by
Thomas Morgan. Drury was then sent as colonel over 1000 men under Lord Willoughby to the assistance of
Henry IV of France. En route he quarrelled with Sir John Borough over precedence, and a duel ensued in which Drury sustained an injury to his arm, and first lost his hand to
gangrene and then his arm by amputation. He died soon afterwards. Drury's body was brought back to England, and he was buried in the chancel of Hawstead church. After his death, Dame Elizabeth (Lady) Drury received a comforting letter from the Queen, in which the Queen referred to her as 'my Bess'. Dame Elizabeth Drury continued to serve the Queen as a
Lady of the Bedchamber until her death in 1599. ==Marriages and issue==