The Convention limits the
defences available to the parent refuting the return application. To defend against the return of the child, the defendant parent must establish to the degree required by the applicable
standard of proof (generally determined by the
lex fori, i.e. the law of the State where the court is located), that one of the following apply: (a) the parent applying for the child’s return was not "actually exercising custody rights at the time of the removal or retention" under Article 13(a); or (b) the parent applying for the child’s return "had consented to or acquiesced in the removal or retention" under Article 13(a); or (c) the application for return commenced more than one year from the time of wrongful removal or retention and the child has "settled in its new environment", under Article 12; or (d) the child “objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to
take account of its views” under Article 13; or (e) "there is grave risk that the child's return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation," under Article 13(b); or (f) the court’s invokes its residual discretion under Article 20: the return of the child is not permitted by the fundamental principles (in the State conducting the analysis) that relate to the protection of
human rights and
fundamental freedoms. While the
best interests of the child is central to legal decisions involving children, it does not play a role in a Convention application. The Convention presupposes that the child’s best interest is served by their prompt return to their State of habitual residence. That being said, "the concept of the best interests of the child must be evaluated in the light of the exceptions provided for by the Hague Convention”. These exceptions are explained further below.
(a) Actually exercising custody rights Whether or not a parent was actually exercising their custody or access rights is arguable depending on the rights of custody held, based on the law of the State of habitual residence. If there is a clear court order that dictates custody or an access schedule, there will be little dispute. If there is no formal agreement but one parent sees or spends time with the child, there may be a question as to whether or not that parent was actually exercising custody rights. For some Contracting States, "actually exercising" is defined broadly so that some minimal involvement between the parent and child is enough. For example, in a case from Quebec Canada, one parent’s telephone contact and occasional visits with the child (one visit in the year 2009) were considered sufficient to equate to an actual exercise of custody rights. Additionally, if custody has not yet been determined, it is possible that the court will find that the parent had rights of custody that “would have [been] exercised” had the child not been removed by the abducting parent.
(b) Consent or acquiescence A parent can explicitly
consent to the child’s removal or retention, or they can
acquiesce, i.e. passively and implicitly accept the removal or retention. In short, acquiescence implies unstated consent. Consent must be real, positive and unequivocal so that a court is satisfied that consent was actually given, despite the absence of a written agreement. This defence is likely to be successful where evidence is convincing that the left-behind parent made an
informed decision, consenting to the child’s removal or retention, and that the abducting parent can prove that they reasonably believed that the other parent consented to a durable, lasting change in the residence of the child. Evidence that one parent deceived the other will likely
vitiate any finding of consent. The burden of proof is on the abducting parent who is fighting the Convention application to show that the other parent did in fact consent or acquiesce. Then, it is up to the parent applying for the child’s return to “adduce as much evidence as possible about the circumstances of the children's departure” which could include texts, emails and any deceitful behaviour on the part of the abducting parent (i.e. only a few of the child’s items were packed, fooling the left-behind parent into thinking that the trip was temporary). In some jurisdictions, the courts refer to the primary purpose of the Convention (the return of children) to hold that only strong and compelling evidence of settlement can displace the Convention objective and justify denying the return. Other jurisdictions look to the child to assess whether or not they are settled in their new environment by taking a literal approach to settlement. In Canada, one Court held that “to determine if a child is “now settled” in its new environment, a “child-centric” factual inquiry must be undertaken to determine the child’s actual circumstances.” The same approach is taken in the UK.
(d) The child's objections The parent seeking to defend against the return order can argue that the child objects to the return. A preference to remain in the new State because the child likes their new school and friends is not enough to amount to an objection. To accept a child’s preference as sufficient would undercut the objectives of the Convention, encouraging parents to abduct their children, settle in a new State, and then “rely on their children’s contentment to avoid being returned to the jurisdiction which should properly deal with their custody and residence.” Some Contracting States have legislated precision into the level of objection required. In Australia, family law regulations provide that the child must object to a return, and the objection must show a “strength of feeling beyond the mere expression of a preference or of ordinary wishes.” Courts have distinguished between a child objecting to being returned to the State of habitual residence, and an objection to being returned to the care of the left-behind parent. The Convention provides that a court will order “the return of the child wrongfully removed or retained
to the State of habitual residence and not
to the person requesting the return” [emphasis added]. Both age and degree of maturity are considered together, and there is variance amongst the Contracting States. In Canada, a Court did not accept the objections of a child of 10 years of age. and England & Wales have upheld the objections of children 8 years of age. Scotland rejected the objections of siblings 15 and 11 years of age. Jurisprudence in the European Union has reversed the requirement: instead of taking into account the views of the child
if it is appropriate to do so, based on age and degree of maturity, the European Union has established that the court must take into account the child’s views
unless it is inappropriate to do so due to age or maturity. A child whose views are going to be heard may require independent legal representation. This is especially true if the abducting parent is suspected to be manipulating or
alienating the children, influencing their objections to return. Some examples of Contracting States with legal representation for children include Canada (the Office of the Children's Lawyer), Russian Federation (Extradition Law Firm), and Australia (Independent Children’s Lawyer).
(e) Grave risk exception The language of Article 13 suggests that the child may be in grave risk if a return would expose them to (1) physical harm, (2) psychological harm, or (3) an intolerable situation. Examples include where there is war, serious civil unrest, or a natural disaster in the State of habitual residence, or where the parent applying for the return order has been abusing the child. More frequently though, Convention applications are made when the abducting parent who flees the State of habitual residence with the child, is escaping
intimate partner violence, whether or not the child is also abused. and to protect the child and abused parent. It is also possible for the State hearing the Convention application to conduct an investigation into the abuse allegations before deciding whether or not to order the child’s return. Physical harm can arise after an attempt is made to return the child to the State of habitual residence, requiring the courts to consider if there would be grave harm if future attempts to return the child are made. In
Re M. (A Minor) (Child Abduction), the children were en route from London to Australia (Australia being their State of habitual residence), when one of the children attempted to open the airplane door as it was taxiing for take-off. Contrast this with the approach taken in Israel, where the Court rejected the argument that a child’s previous suicide attempt in the State of habitual residence justified denying the return. In addition to the child’s threats of suicide, an Australia case held that evidence that the abducting parent may commit suicide if ordered to return with the child could constitute grave risk of harm. Some have tried, unsuccessfully, to argue that grave risk includes exposure to city pollution, high risk of future earthquakes, inadequate housing, financial weakness, and reliance on
state benefits. Poor financial circumstances have factored into the analysis when deciding not to order the child’s return in Australia, the Netherlands, and Scotland. If physical or psychological harm are not established, the parent can argue any other “intolerable situation", which is described as a situation that goes beyond the inconveniences necessarily linked to the experience of return, producing a situation beyond what a child might reasonably bear.
(f) Residual discretion If none of the above defences are successfully argued, the court hearing the Convention application retains discretion not to order the return if to do so would violate that State’s fundamental principles with regards to protection of human rights and fundamental freedoms. The Canadian case
AMRI v. KER, provides an example of a situation where the Court will look to their own laws regarding human rights and fundamental freedoms to determine whether or not to order the return. In this case, the child lived in Canada and was legally recognized as a refugee. The mother commenced a Convention application for the child to be returned to Mexico. According to Canadian law, the child’s refugee status gave rise to a rebuttable presumption of risk of persecution, engaging the child's s. 7
Charter rights to life, liberty and security of the person, and engaging the exceptions in Article 13 and 20. == Facilitating the child's return - practical matters ==