Childhood Helen Herron was born on June 2, 1861, in
Cincinnati as the fourth of eleven children, the daughter of Harriet Collins Herron and lawyer John Williamson Herron. Throughout her life, she went by "Nellie". Her father was an associate of two future presidents: he was a college classmate of
Benjamin Harrison and a law partner of
Rutherford B. Hayes, Growing up around politics, Herron developed a love for campaigning. eventually becoming proficient in the piano. Seeking a channel for her ambition and independence, she enrolled in Cincinnati's prestigious Miss Nourse School for Girls where she was educated in many subjects, including several languages. In 1877, she accompanied her parents when they visited President Hayes and stayed for several weeks at the
White House. This visit instilled in Herron a strong desire to return to the White House as first lady, one that she would often present to her eventual husband.
Early career and courtship Herron long wished to leave Ohio, feeling that the region offered her little opportunity. She did not consider marriage to be a viable option, believing that matrimony should not be a woman's goal. As a young adult, she worked for her father in his law office. Her
debut took place at this time, which she enjoyed despite considering her social obligations to be frivolous. Herron lamented her lack of career options as a woman, eventually taking up teaching as it was the only available career for which she was qualified. She taught French at a private school in
Walnut Hills, Ohio for two years beginning in 1881, but she found it unpleasant. She wished to write or perform music, though neither developed into a career for her. Herron first met
William Howard Taft at a sledding party in 1880, though the Herron family and the
Taft family were familiar with one another. They would go on to perform together as part of the community theater company. In 1884, Herron founded a
salon to discuss intellectual topics each Sunday afternoon with other people of her age. Among the people she invited were Taft and his brother
Horace. Taft courted Herron, accompanying her to dances and sending her letters and flowers. Self-doubt caused Herron to avoid commitment to Taft, fearing that he did not truly care for her or value her opinions. Taft proposed to her multiple times, and she eventually accepted in June 1885, though she asked that he keep the engagement secret. ==Marriage and family==