Upbringing and teens John Wilmot was born at
Ditchley House in
Oxfordshire on 1 April 1647. His father,
Henry, Viscount Wilmot, was created
Earl of Rochester in 1652 for his military service to Charles II during the King's exile under the
Commonwealth. Paul Davis describes Henry as "a
Cavalier legend, a dashing bon vivant and war-hero who single-handedly engineered the future Charles II's escape to the Continent (including the famous concealment in an oak tree) after the disastrous
battle of Worcester in 1651". His father died in 1658, and John Wilmot inherited the title of the Earl of Rochester in April of that year. Whilst there, it is said, the 13-year-old "grew debauched". In September 1661 he was awarded an honorary
M.A. by the newly elected
chancellor of the university,
Edward Hyde, Earl of Clarendon, a family friend. As an act of gratitude towards the son of Henry Wilmot, Charles II conferred on Rochester an annual pension of £500. In November 1661 Charles sent Rochester on a three-year
Grand Tour of France and Italy, and appointed the physician
Andrew Balfour as his
governor. This exposed him to an unusual degree to European (especially French) writing and thought. In 1664 Rochester returned to
London, and made his formal début at the
Restoration court on
Christmas Day. It has been suggested by a number of scholars that the King took a paternal role in Rochester's life. Charles II suggested a marriage between Rochester and the wealthy heiress
Elizabeth Malet. Her relatives opposed marriage to the impoverished Rochester, who conspired with his mother to abduct Elizabeth.
Samuel Pepys described the attempted abduction in his diary on 28 May 1665: Thence to my Lady Sandwich's, where, to my shame, I had not been a great while before. Here, [I told] her a story of my Lord Rochester's running away on Friday night last with Mrs. Mallett, the great beauty and fortune of the North, who had supped at White Hall with Mrs. Stewart, and was going home to her lodgings with her grandfather, my Lord Haly, by coach; and was at Charing Cross seized on by both horse and foot men, and forcibly taken from him, and put into a coach with six horses, and two women provided to receive her, and carried away. Upon immediate pursuit, my Lord of Rochester (for whom the King had spoke to the lady often, but with no successe ) was taken at Uxbridge; but the lady is not yet heard of, and the King mighty angry, and the Lord sent to the Tower. 18-year-old Rochester spent three weeks in
the Tower, and was released only after he wrote a penitent apology to the King. His courage at the
Battle of Vågen, serving on board the ship of
Thomas Teddeman, made him a war hero. The role encompassed, one week in every four, Rochester helping the King to dress and undress, serve his meals when dining in private, and sleeping at the foot of the King's bed. Upon returning from sea, Rochester resumed his courtship of Elizabeth Malet. Defying her family's wishes, Malet eloped with Rochester again in January 1667, and they were married at the
Knightsbridge chapel. They had four children: Lady Anne Wilmot (1669–1703), Charles Wilmot (1671–1681), Lady Elizabeth Wilmot (1674–1757) and Lady Malet Wilmot (1676–1708/1709). In October 1667, the monarch granted Rochester special licence to enter the
House of Lords early, despite his being seven months underage. Teenage actress
Nell Gwyn "almost certainly" took him as her lover; she was later to become the mistress of Charles II. The
Merry Gang flourished for about 15 years after 1665 and included
Henry Jermyn;
Charles Sackville, Earl of Dorset;
John Sheffield, Earl of Mulgrave;
Henry Killigrew; Sir
Charles Sedley; the playwrights
William Wycherley and
George Etherege; and
George Villiers, 2nd Duke of Buckingham.
Gilbert Burnet wrote of him that, "For five years together he was continually Drunk ... [and] not ... perfectly Master of himself ... [which] led him to ... do many wild and unaccountable things." When the King's advisor and friend of Rochester,
George Villiers, lost power in 1673, Rochester's standing fell as well.
John Aubrey learned what Rochester said on this occasion when he came in from his "revells" with Charles Sackville, Lord Buckhurst, and
Fleetwood Sheppard to see the object: What ... doest thou stand here to fuck time?' Dash they fell to worke". Rochester fled the court again. Following this incident, Rochester briefly fled to
Tower Hill, where he impersonated a
mountebank "Doctor Bendo". Under this persona, he claimed skill in treating "barrenness" (infertility), and other gynaecological disorders.
Gilbert Burnet wryly noted that Rochester's practice was "not without success", implying his intercession of himself as a surreptitious sperm donor. On occasion, Rochester also assumed the role of the grave and matronly Mrs. Bendo, presumably so that he could inspect young women privately without arousing their husbands' suspicions.
Death By the age of 33, Rochester was dying from what is usually described as the effects of
tertiary syphilis,
gonorrohea, or other
venereal diseases, combined with the effects of
alcoholism. Carol Richards has disputed this, arguing that it is more likely that he died of
renal failure due to chronic
nephritis (
Bright's disease). His mother arranged for him to be attended in his final weeks by her religious associates, particularly
Gilbert Burnet, later
Bishop of Salisbury. After hearing of Burnet's departure from his side, Rochester muttered his last words: "Has my friend left me? Then I shall die shortly". In the early morning of 26 July 1680, Rochester died "without a shudder or a sound". He was buried at
Spelsbury church in
Oxfordshire. A
deathbed renunciation of libertinism and conversion to
Anglican Christianity,
Some Passages of the Life and Death of the Honourable John Wilmot Earl of Rochester, was published by Reverend Burnet. Because this account appears in Burnet's own writings, its accuracy has been disputed by some scholars, who accuse Burnet of having shaped the account of Rochester's denunciation of libertinism to enhance his own reputation. On the other hand, Graham Greene, in his biography of Wilmot, calls Burnet's book "convincing". == Issue ==