Speculation around Eilish's
sexual orientation began when she released the music video for the single "
Lost Cause" in 2021. The video features Eilish at a
slumber party with several women, doing various activities such as
twerking, playing
Twister, and spraying
silly string. Many fans and media outlets saw the video as
homoerotic, while others accused her of
queerbaiting. In response, Eilish posted behind-the-scenes pictures from the video on
Instagram with the caption "I love girls". In November 2023, Eilish appeared for a
Variety cover story, in which she discussed her relationship to sexuality and womanhood, as well as her frustration with people speculating on her sexual orientation. She said that she had always felt an
emotional attraction to women alongside physical attraction, admitting that she can be overawed with women she found beautiful. A month later, during a
red carpet for the magazine's "Hitmakers" event, a reporter asked Eilish if her comments during her interview were meant as a
coming out statement, to which she said that it was not the intention and that she thought her sexual orientation was already obvious. When the event concluded, she took to Instagram to criticize the reporter for their question, accusing them of
outing her and confirming she
liked both men and women. == Music and lyrics ==