Lord Fleming was killed at the
Battle of Pinkie in 1547. The following year, presumably due to her unofficial membership in the royal
Stewart family, the
widow Fleming was
appointed governess or
nurse to her infant half-niece
Mary, Queen of Scots (her new mistress having been fathered by her late half-brother). Her own daughter,
Mary Fleming, also joined the queen's
household as a
lady-in-waiting or ''fille d'honneur''. In August 1548, mother and daughter accompanied the young queen to
France. They waited aboard ship on the
Clyde at
Dumbarton Castle for a time. Lady Fleming asked
Captain Villegaignon if the queen could go back ashore to rest. Villegaignon swore she would go to France or drown on the way. Giovanni Ferrerio wrote to
Robert Reid,
Bishop of Orkney, concerned about Lady Fleming's lack of French or Latin. As she was only fluent in
Scots, he doubted her ability to communicate to French doctors any symptoms of illness seen in Mary. He hoped Reid would speak to Mary of Guise to secure the appointment of a Scottish physician, William Bog. Building accounts mention ironwork for the security of the governess's chamber at the
Château de Saint-Germain-en-Laye. At the
royal court of France, Lady Fleming soon attracted the attentions of King
Henry II and became his lover. Their affair resulted in pregnancy and a son was born early in 1551. The affair angered the
queen of France
Catherine de' Medici and the King's mistress
Diane de Poitiers. In October 1551, Janet was sent back to Scotland and replaced as governess to Mary by
Françoise de Paroy. Her son by Henry II,
Henri de Valois-Angoulême (1551–June, 1586), became "the chief and most highly favored natural son of the King". He was legitimized and went on to become the "Grand
Prior of France, Governor of
Provence, and Admiral of the
Levantine Sea." In November 1549 the English prisoner
James Wilford was exchanged for the release of her son James, Lord Fleming, who had been captured during the war of the
Rough Wooing. In October 1552, Janet's situation in Scotland was described by
Mary of Guise in a letter written to her brother, the
Cardinal of Lorraine. There had been talk of marrying Janet off to
Henri Cleutin, Guise's military advisor. Although one of Janet's daughters had informed Mary of Guise that her mother did not wish to leave Scotland, Guise knew that Janet had discussed leaving Scotland with the Governor,
Regent Arran, and wanted to see Henry II that winter. Guise told the Cardinal to reassure Catherine de' Medici that Janet would not be leaving Scotland. Janet was one of the ladies who kept vigil over the body of Mary of Guise at
Edinburgh Castle in June 1560. The ladies were not at first given mourning clothes, and Janet quoted in Latin a phrase from the
Book of Joel to the English diplomat
Thomas Randolph, "Scindite corda vestra, non vestimenta," Rend your heart, not your garments. Afterwards, Janet applied to the
Privy Council for permission to leave Scotland with her son "Lord Hary de Valoys" on 22 August 1560. Henri took part in the
St. Bartholomew's Day massacre and was killed in a
duel in 1586. ==Ancestors==