Forbes was married for thirty-nine years to Roberta Remsen Laidlaw before their divorce in 1985. The couple had five children:
Malcolm S. Jr. (Steve), Robert Laidlaw,
Christopher Charles, Timothy Carter, and Moira Hamilton. Steve Forbes ran unsuccessfully for president in
1996 and
2000. While living abroad, his father returned to
Buchan, Aberdeenshire, every two years, staying in the
Cruden Bay Hotel, "to entertain people of Whitehill to a picnic". It was a tradition revived by Malcolm in 1987.
Lifestyle Forbes was an avid but idiosyncratic collector. In addition to a huge art collection and a collection of historical documents, he collected
Harley-Davidson motorbikes and specially shaped
hot air balloons. He owned more than 365 works by
Peter Carl Fabergé, including a dozen Imperial eggs. Malcolm Forbes' lavish lifestyle was exemplified by his private
Capitalist Tool Boeing 727 trijet, ever-larger
Highlander yachts, and his French Chateau (
Château de Balleroy in Normandy) as well as his opulent birthday parties. In the mid-1960s he was a fixture at NYC's famous Cat Club on Wednesday nights, supporting local musical talent. in
Normandy He chose the
Mendoub Palace (which he had acquired from the Moroccan government in 1970) in the northwestern city of
Tangier, Morocco, to host his 70th birthday party. Spending an estimated $2.5 million, he chartered a
Boeing 747, a
Douglas DC-8 and a
Concorde to fly in eight hundred of the world's rich and famous from New York and London. The guests included his friend
Elizabeth Taylor (who acted as a co-host),
Gianni Agnelli,
Robert Maxwell,
Barbara Walters,
Henry Kissinger, six U.S. state governors, and the CEOs of scores of multinational corporations likely to advertise in his magazine. The party entertainment was on a grand scale, including 600 drummers, acrobats and dancers and a fantasia—a cavalry charge ending with the firing of muskets into the air—by 300
Berber horsemen. Party favors included a custom-engraved
Rolex watch for each guest. Forbes became a motorcyclist late in life. He founded and rode with a motorcycle club called the Capitalist Tools. His estate in New Jersey was a regular meeting place for tours that he organized for fellow New Jersey and New York motorcyclists. He had a stable of motorcycles but was partial to
Harley-Davidson machines. He was known for his gift of Purple Passion, a Harley-Davidson, to actress
Elizabeth Taylor. He was also instrumental in getting legislation passed to allow motorcycles on the
Garden State Parkway in New Jersey.
Sexuality In March 1990, soon after his death,
OutWeek magazine published a story with the cover headline "The Secret Gay Life of Malcolm Forbes", by
Michelangelo Signorile, which
alleged Forbes was a gay man. Signorile was critical of the media for helping Forbes publicize many aspects of his life while keeping his homosexuality a secret. The writer asked, "Is our society so overwhelmingly repressive that even individuals as all-powerful as the late Malcolm Forbes feel they absolutely cannot
come out of the closet?" Even in death, the media was reluctant to disclose his sexuality; when
The New York Times reported on the controversy, they did not name Forbes in their coverage, referring only to news about a "famous, deceased millionaire". ==Death and legacy==