Fluharty is from
Millsboro, Delaware. Her mother, Kathleen, was an
All-American field hockey player at
Northwestern, while her father, Kevin, was a national champion in the sport at
Lycoming College. She started playing field hockey from a young age, with
The News Journal stating that she was "practically born with a field hockey stick in her hands," and trained in the sport year-round, joining the U.S. Olympic development program at age 12. Fluharty attended
Sussex Technical High School where she played field hockey and
lacrosse.
The News Journal noted that she "put Sussex Tech on the state field hockey map." The team
captain in field hockey, she was named first-team all-conference in all four years, three times first-team all-state, and twice as the state Player of the Year. ==College career==