Mennonites are easily identified by their clothing, except from the ones who have modernized to a large degree or have never been traditional, because they have converted in recent times. The women wear bonnets and long dresses while the men wear denim overalls and hats. The men may wear traditional suspenders and dark trousers. The women wear brightly colored dresses. In many of the Mennonite communities there is a softening of the old tradition. In
Upper Barton Creek and daughter settlements, men and women dress similar to the
Old Order Amish. Both
Old Colony Mennonites and
Noah Hoover Mennonites use
horse-drawn buggies for transportation, but only the Noah Hoovers also till fields with horse-drawn implements. Traditional Mennonites conduct burial services mainly in German, but with some parts in English so that visitors can take part. After the service the whole congregation files orderly to the front of the church to pay their last respect. In Spanish Lookout, members and friends of the deceased address the congregation after the obituary has been read. Tombs are not used, but a cross marks the name and spot. Before burying the body to the earth, hymns are sung. Members of the community take turns shoveling the earth until the burial is complete. After that the community comes together and eat bread, sausages and coffee with the bereaved family. Marriages usually start with courtship, which can last for six months to a year. The boy's parents ask the girl's father for permission. After that the parents get together and set the wedding date. The penultimate Saturday evening before the wedding is called "Falafnes" (
Standard German: ). On this event, the friend of the bride and the groom share the Bible reading. Weddings are performed on Sundays. They usually consist of two ministers: one to explain the meaning of matrimony, and the other to do the blessings. Gifts given are usually tools and household items. Mennonites from the
Noah Hoover group in
Upper Barton Creek and daughter settlements are extremely restrictive concerning the use of motors and electricity, that is, both motors and electricity are forbidden in the settlement by the members of the group. Their clothing is very similar to the
Old Order Amish, and men wear beards like the Amish. Therefore, they are often perceived as Amish and called Amish, even though this is not the case. The Mennonites have made it a point to have their own school, church, and financial institution in their community. ==Languages==