Nikolai Robert Maximilian Freiherr von Ungern-Sternberg was born in
Graz,
Austria, on to a noble
Baltic German family. The
Ungern-Sternberg family had settled in present-day
Estonia during the
Middle Ages. Ungern-Sternberg's first language was German, but he became fluent in French, Russian, English and Estonian. His mother was a German noblewoman, Sophie Charlotte von Wimpffen, later Sophie Charlotte von Ungern-Sternberg. His father was Theodor Leonhard Rudolph Freiherr von Ungern-Sternberg (1857–1918). He also had
Hungarian roots and claimed descent from
Batu Khan,
Genghis Khan's grandson, which played a role in his dream of reviving the
Mongol Empire. In 1888 his family moved to
Reval (Tallinn), the capital of the
Governorate of Estonia in the
Russian Empire. His parents divorced in 1891. In 1894 his mother married the Baltic-German nobleman Oskar Anselm Hermann Freiherr von Hoyningen-Huene. Ungern-Sternberg grew up in the Governorate, with his home being the Hoyningen-Huene estate at Jerwakant (modern
Järvakandi, Estonia), deep in the forests, about from Reval. In the summer, Ungern-Sternberg lived on the Baltic island of Dagö (now
Hiiumaa), which he liked to boast had belonged to his family for over 200 years. As a boy, Ungern-Sternberg was noted for being such a ferocious bully that even the other bullies feared him and several parents forbade their children from playing with him as he was a "terror". Ungern was well known for his love of torturing animals, and at the age of 12 he tried to strangle to death his cousin's pet owl. Ungern-Sternberg had extreme pride in his ancient, aristocratic family and later wrote that his family had over the centuries "never taken orders from the working classes" and it was outrageous that "dirty workers who've never had any servants of their own, but still think they can command" should have any say in the ruling of the vast Russian Empire. Ungern-Sternberg, although proud of his German origin, identified himself very strongly with the Russian Empire. When asked whether his "family had distinguished itself in Russian service", Ungern proudly answered: "Seventy-two killed in wartime!". Ungern-Sternberg believed that return to monarchies in Europe was possible with the aid of "cavalry people" – meaning
Russian Cossacks,
Buryats,
Tatars,
Mongols,
Kyrgyz,
Kalmyks, etc. In 1898, his father was briefly imprisoned for fraud before being committed to the local insane asylum the following year. From 1900 to 1902 Ungern attended the
Nicholas I Gymnasium in Reval. His school records show an unruly, bad-tempered young man who was constantly in trouble with his teachers because of frequent fights with other cadets and breaking other school rules: smoking in bed, growing long hair, leaving without permission, etc. In February 1905, the schoolmaster wrote to his stepfather and mother, asking them to withdraw him from the school or he would be expelled. They chose withdrawal, and Ungern joined the fighting in eastern Russia during the
Russo-Japanese War. It is unclear whether he saw action against the Japanese or if all military operations had ceased before his arrival in
Manchuria, although he was awarded the
Russo-Japanese War Medal in 1913. During the
1905 Russian Revolution, Estonian peasants went on a bloody
jacquerie against the Baltic-German nobility, who owned most of the land. Aristocrats were lynched and their estates burned down, among them the one at Jerwakant where Ungern-Sternberg had grown up. These events were traumatic for Ungern-Sternberg, confirming his belief that the Estonian peasants who worked on his family's lands were all "rough, untutored, wild and constantly angry, hating everybody and everything without understanding why". In 1906, Ungern was transferred to the Pavlovsk Military School, in St. Petersburg, as a cadet of ordinary rank. As an army cadet, he proved to be a better student than he ever was as a naval cadet, and he actually studied his course material, but in the words of Palmer, he was a "mediocre student" at best. During the same period, Ungern-Sternberg became obsessed with the occult and developed an interest in
Buddhism. His cousin Count
Hermann von Keyserling, who later knew him well, wrote that the baron was very curious from his teenage years onward with "
Tibetan and
Hindu philosophy" and often spoke of the mystical powers possessed by "geometrical symbols". Keyserling called Ungern-Sternberg "one of the most metaphysically and occultly gifted men I have ever met" and believed that the baron could read minds. Later, in Mongolia, Ungern became a Buddhist but did not leave the Lutheran faith. There is a widespread view that he was viewed by Mongols as the incarnation of the "God of War", the figure of
Jamsaran in Tibetan and Mongol folklore. Comparison of old narrations collected by B. Rinchen with scattered memoir data and memories preserved in Mongolia suggested that Ungern could be associated with Gesar, who in some Buddhist representations of the Mongols was considered the God of war and associated with Jamsaran. Although many Mongols may have believed him to be a deity or at the very least a re-incarnation of Genghis Khan, Ungern was never officially proclaimed to be any of those incarnations. After graduating, he specifically asked to be stationed with a Cossack regiment in Asia, to learn more about Asian culture. His request was granted, and he served as an officer in eastern
Siberia in the 1st Argunsky and then in the 1st
Amursky Cossack regiments, where he became enthralled with the lifestyle of nomadic peoples, such as the
Mongols and
Buryats. Ungern-Sternberg was notorious for his heavy drinking and exceptionally cantankerous moods. In one such brawl, his face was scarred when the officer that he fought struck him with his sword. It was rumored that brain damage from the injury had affected his sanity. A special study found that Ungern-Sternberg was sane, although the wound affected his irritability. In 1913, at his request, he transferred to the reserves. Ungern moved to
Outer Mongolia to assist the Mongols in their struggle for independence from China, but Russian officials prevented him from fighting on the side of Mongolian troops. He arrived in the town of
Khovd, in western Mongolia, and served as an out-of-staff officer in the Cossack guard detachment at the Russian consulate. ==First World War==