General ) in
New York City; many of them carry signs with slogans relating to and condemning sexual assault and discussing public perceptions thereof|thumb|There have been various efforts to both criticise and reclaim use of the word
slut. The word
slut is used as a slang term in the
BDSM,
polyamorous, and
gay and bisexual communities. A parallel exists between the female term
slut and the term
gay for males. Unlike women, who are usually policed for being sexually promiscuous, men are often criticized for not being masculine or dominant enough, thus questioning their
heterosexuality. Unlike women, who are expected to be sexually chaste, men are expected to be sexually active, thus having more sexual freedom. Although
slut is rarely used to describe heterosexual men, it is commonly used among gay males. When discussing sexual activity,
slut is used to shame
gay men for taking sexual risks, such as
unprotected sex or having multiple partners. However, if used in a humorous way,
slut may also favor sexual freedom and mark the shift from traditional gender roles in gay men. With
BDSM, polyamorous, and
non-monogamous people, in usage taken from the book
The Ethical Slut, the term has been used as an expression of choice to openly have multiple
partners, and revel in that choice: "a slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that
sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." A
slut is a person who has taken control of their sexuality and has sex with whomever they choose, regardless of religious or social pressures or conventions to conform to a strait-laced monogamous lifestyle committed to one partner for life. The term has been
reappropriated to express the rejection of the concept that government, society, or religion may judge or control one's personal liberties, and the right to control one's own sexuality. In April 2013, Emily Lindin, founder of the UnSlut Project, created a blog to share her stories on sexual bullying to "provide some perspective to girls who currently feel trapped and ashamed". The blog now consists of entries from members of all ages, ethnicities, and genders. The film,
UnSlut: A Documentary Film, coincides with the project and is screened across the country. The double standard associated with slut-labeling is part of the modern-day
rape culture. Rape culture is "the casual debasement [of women] ... that has become such a part of our lives that it is often invisible." Though people in society are vocally anti-rape, there is an insinuation that certain types of rape are acceptable or that women are voluntarily taking actions that justify sexual advances. "For example, women continue to be blamed if they are raped because of how they are dressed, the assumption that women purportedly lie about being raped remains popular, and certain women, such as married women or women of colour, are still considered 'unrapeable'". The word
slut and the double standard it contains reflects the gender norms and gender biases There have been many movements or "
SlutWalks" taking place around the world to regain a sense of pride in women. Many slut walks or movements protest against the idea that a woman's appearance, often considered promiscuous, is a justification of sexual assault and rape. The participants in these walks protest against individuals that excuse rape due to the woman's appearance, including
victim blaming and slut shaming; slut walks have now become a worldwide movement.
Women of color The word
slut means different things to white women and
people of color, especially black women.
Slut has different associations for black women.
Anna North of
The New York Times covered
Leora Tanenbaum who stated, "As Black women, we do not have the privilege or the space to call ourselves 'slut' without validating the already historically entrenched ideology and recurring messages about what and who the Black woman is." She argued that, for black women, the word
slut does not mean anything very harmful due to the history of being treated as slaves in the past. Black women's "relationship to the term
slut" is informed by a history of racism and slavery, of "having been seen as objects of property, not just for the sexual gratification of those in power but also for reproduction of whole generations of slaves, which involved rape most of the time." People of color, especially black people, had been avoiding words like
slut,
jezebel,
hottentot,
mammy,
mule,
sapphire, or
welfare queens. Model and actress
Amber Rose was one of the first people to conduct and take a lead for a SlutWalk for people of color. "The Amber Rose SlutWalk Festival is a completely inclusive space. This event is a zero tolerance event and we do not condone hateful language, racism, sexism, ableism, fat-shaming,
transphobia or any other kind of bigotry. Further, we recognize that shaming, oppression, assault and violence have disproportionately impacted marginalized groups, including women of color, transgender people and sex workers, and thus we are actively working to center these groups at our events." ==See also==