Critics found the song to share similarities with works by American singer-songwriter
Justin Timberlake, who has worked with Timbaland on numerous occasions, from his second studio album
FutureSex/LoveSounds (2006). Mike Schiller of
PopMatters compared the synthesizers on the song to those utilized in Timberlake's single "
My Love" (2006), which both him and Timbaland share songwriting and production credits. Sal Cinquemani of
Slant Magazine felt the same way, describing the synth line as "booming" and "futuristic". Norman Meyers of
Prefix compared the song to Timberlake's "
SexyBack". Luke Bainbridge of
The Observer also shared interest in the track, labeling it along with "Release" and "Bounce" as "standout tracks", while Andy Kellman of
AllMusic did the same with the song along with three other songs from the
Shock Value album. Daniel Incognito of Sputnikmusic praised the song's structure, writing "The pulsating synth melody throughout the song is as irresistible as its My Love counterpart, and a sure fire way to get everybody on the dance floor." Incognito also fell in favor of the vocals provided by Timbaland's protégé, Keri Hilson, writing "Her plush R&B vocals fit into Timbaland's construction perfectly, never allowing the strong melody to dominate her vocals, but instead matching it in terms of lure." Nate Patrin of
Pitchfork Magazine describes the song as a "straight up jaw-dropper." Nathan S. of
DJBooth.net labeled it, along with three other songs from the album, as recipes for success while noting that they sounded "safe" compared to the rest of the album. Ivan Rott of
About.com was less enthusiastic of the song, deeming it mediocre and stating that it was "veering off into a no-man's land of repetitive synth-heavy electronica". Andrea Park of
The Online Gargoyle shared the same thoughts in her review of the album, stating that "The flat quality of this album was most apparent in the five songs with accompanying female vocalists." "The Way I Are" received a nomination at the
2007 MTV Video Music Awards for "Monster Single of the Year" along with nine other musicians, but lost to Rihanna's "
Umbrella". Timbaland also received a nomination at the
2008 Grammys for Producer of the Year (Non-Classical) for his work on this song and many others released during 2007. On December 11, 2007, Apple released the lists of iTunes' top 10 most-downloaded albums and songs of 2007 and "The Way I Are" was revealed to be the ninth best selling single on iTunes.
Vibe Magazine listed "The Way I Are" as the thirty-third best song of 2007, commenting that "the true genius is spotlighting ingénue Keri Hilson". ==Chart performance==