In 1132, his wife, Suanhilde, died, leaving only a daughter. In 1139, he went on pilgrimage to the
crusader
Kingdom of Jerusalem, and married
Sibylla of Anjou, daughter of King
Fulk of Jerusalem and the widow of William Clito; a very prestigious marriage. This was the first of Theoderic's four pilgrimages to the
Holy Land. While there he also led a victorious expedition against
Caesarea Phillippi, and fought alongside his father-in-law in an invasion of
Gilead. He soon returned to Flanders to put down a revolt in the Duchy of
Lower Lotharingia, ruled at the time by
Godfrey III of Leuven. Theoderic joined the
Second Crusade in 1147. He led the crossing of the
Maeander River in
Anatolia and fought at the Battla of Attalya in 1148, and after arriving in the crusader Kingdom he participated in the
Council of Acre, where the ill-fated decision to attack
Damascus was made. Theoderic participated in the
Siege of Damascus, led by his wife's half-brother
Baldwin III of Jerusalem, and with the support of Baldwin,
Louis VII of France, and
Conrad III of Germany, he lay claim to Damascus. However, the native crusader barons preferred one of their own nobles,
Guy I Brisebarre, lord of
Beirut. According to
William of Tyre, the resulting dispute contributed to the final failure of the siege: 'for the local barons preferred that the Damascenes should keep their city rather than to see it given to the count', and so did all they could to ensure the siege collapsed. Therefore, William continues, many contemporaries blamed Theoderic for the ultimate failure of the Second Crusade (though it is notable that William himself declines to say whether he believed Theoderic responsible). During his absence, Baldwin IV of Hainaut invaded Flanders and pillaged
Artois; Sibylla reacted strongly and had
Hainaut pillaged in response. The Archbishop of Reims intervened and a treaty was signed. When Theoderic returned in 1150, he took vengeance on Baldwin IV at
Bouchain, with the aid of
Henry I, Count of Namur and
Henry II of Leez,
Bishop of Liège. In the subsequent peace negotiations, Theoderic gave his daughter
Marguerite in marriage to Baldwin IV's son, the future
Baldwin V, Count of Hainaut. ==Return to Holy Land==