On October 16, 1861, he married
Caroline Dutcher Sterling Choate (1837–1929), who had been born in
Salisbury, Connecticut. She was the daughter of Caroline Mary (née Dutcher) Sterling and Frederick Augustine Sterling and a distant relative of
Frederick A. Sterling. Caroline was an artist and an advocate for women's education, helping to establish both
Brearley School and
Barnard College. Joseph and Caroline were the parents of five children, two of whom predeceased their parents: •
Joseph Hodges Choate Jr. (February 2, 1876 – 1968), who married Cora Lyman Oliver, daughter of General
Robert Shaw Oliver, in 1903. The family owned a large country house, known as
Naumkeag, which was designed by
Stanford White and is today open to the public as a nonprofit museum in
Stockbridge, Massachusetts. Choate died on May 14, 1917, at his residence, 8
East 63rd Street in Manhattan. His funeral was held on May 17 at
St. Bartholomew's Church in New York, where it was attended by the British Ambassador, Sir
Cecil Spring-Rice, the French Minister of Education, M. Hovelacque, and the Assistant Secretary of State,
William Phillips, among many others. He was buried in the Stockbridge Cemetery in
Stockbridge, Massachusetts. Memorial services were held on May 22 in London, England, and on May 31 at
Trinity Church on
Wall Street.
Descendants Through his granddaughter, Helen Choate Platt (1906–1974), he is the great-grandfather of diplomat
Nicholas Platt (b. 1936), the former
U.S. Ambassador to Zambia,
the Philippines, and
Pakistan; and the great-great-grandfather of actor
Oliver Platt (b. 1960).
Honors and legacy He was awarded an
honorary doctorate (
LL.D.) by the
University of Edinburgh in March 1900; another LL.D. from
Yale University in October 1901, during celebrations for the bicentenary of the university; an honorary doctorate (
D.C.L.) by the
University of Oxford in June 1902; and an honorary degree by the
University of St Andrews in October 1902. He was an elected member of both the
American Academy of Arts and Sciences and the
American Philosophical Society.
Elihu Root, Theodore Roosevelt, and
Francis Lynde Stetson delivered memorial addresses on January 19, 1918 before the
Century Association, where Choate had been a member since 1858 and served as president 1911–1917.
James Bryce and
Charles W. Eliot sent letters and
Arthur Balfour sent a cable message for the occasion. In 1919, two years after his death, members of the
Harvard Club of New York City established the Joseph Hodges Choate Memorial Fellowship at
Harvard University to commemorate his life and legacy. It is awarded each year to a student from the
University of Cambridge on the recommendation of the Cambridge
Vice-Chancellor for study in any Department of Harvard University. ==Published works==