On the Lebaran day, after performing the
Eid prayer in the morning, people dressed in their new or best clothes will gather to greet their family and neighbours. It is common to greet people with
"Selamat Idulfitri", which means "Happy Eid". Muslims also greet one another with
"mohon maaf lahir dan batin", which means "Forgive my physical and emotional (wrongdoings)", because Idul Fitri is not only for celebrations but also a time for
atonement to ask for forgiveness for sins which have been cleansed as a result of the fasting in the Muslim month of Ramadan. From morning to afternoon, the
zakat alms for the poor are distributed in mosques.
Lebaran feast is a popular traditional celebrative dish for Eid al-Fitr meals in Brunei, Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore and Southern Thailand. kering, such as
kaasstengels,
putri salju,
nastar, peanut cookies and choco-chip cookies are popular lebaran
cookies Families usually have a special Lebaran meal served during breakfast, brunch or lunch; special dishes include
ketupat,
opor ayam,
rendang, sambal goreng ati,
sayur lodeh and
lemang (a type of
glutinous rice cake cooked in bamboo). Various types of snacks such as roasted peanuts,
kue, kue kering (
cookies) especially
kaasstengels,
nastar and
putri salju,
dodol and imported
dates sweet delicacies are served during the day, together with fruit syrup beverages. The lively or alternatively very emotional devotional music blended with Quranic verses associated with Ramadan and Eid – known as
Kaisidah or more correctly,
Qasida – can be heard throughout the country. These are commonly performed by famous musicians, some of whom may be international stars, and televised nationwide.
Silaturrahmi and lebaran money Younger families usually visit their older neighbours or relatives to wish them a happy Eid and to ask for forgiveness. During these visits, it is customary for older, established or married couples to give
uang lebaran, a small amount of money, to their own children, as well as those of relatives and neighbours. Idul Fitri is a joyous day for children, as adults give them money in colourful envelopes. Indonesian banks and
Bank Indonesia usually open some money changer counters to change larger to smaller denominations several days before Lebaran. The denominations may vary from 1,000 to 10,000 rupiah. The sudden rise of demand for goods (especially food) and services (especially transportation), and the pulsing and distribution of newly printed small denomination
bank notes from the central bank, gives the Indonesian economy a seasonal
inflation annually.
Lebaran costumes It is customary for
Muslim Indonesians to wear traditional clothing on Eid al-Fitr. The male outfit is known as
baju koko: a collarless long- or short-sleeve shirt with traditional embroidered designs with a "kilt"
sarung of
songket,
ikat or similar woven, plaid-cloth. Alternatively, they may wear Western-style business suits or more traditional loose-fitting trousers with colour-matched shirts and a
peci hat or regional cultural headwear and songkok. The
Malay variant worn in Malaysia, Singapore, Brunei,
Southern Thailand and parts of Indonesia (especially
Sumatera and
Kalimantan) is known as the
Baju Melayu, shirt worn with a
sarong known as
kain samping or
songket and a headwear known as
songkok. The traditional female dress is known as
kebaya kurung. It consists of, normally, a loose-fitting
kebaya blouse (which may be enhanced with
brocade and
embroidery), a long
skirt both of which may be
batik, or the
sarung skirt made of
batik, ikat or songket and for some women either the
jilbab (
hijab) or its variant the stiffened
kerudung Veil. Non-
Austronesian Muslims, or even non-Muslims may don costumes of their respective culture and tradition, or
Islamic clothes to show respect to their relatives' or friends' differing religious beliefs for the occasion. This is particularly common in Indonesia, where many families have close friends or relatives of differing faiths, namely
Catholic, some
Protestant, some
Hindu,
Buddhist and Muslim, or even
Confucian.
Visiting graves makam'' or visiting the grave of family or prominent Muslim figure It is common for many Muslims in Indonesia to visit the graves of loved ones several days before
Ramadhan. During this visit, they clean the grave, recite
Ya-Seen, a chapter (
sura) from the Quran, and perform the
tahlil ceremony. These are done as a means to ask God to forgive both the dead and the living for their sins. The Javanese majority of Indonesia is known for their pre-Islamic
Kejawen traditions of washing the headstone using scented water from the traditional
terracotta water-jug, the
kendi, and sprinkling hyacinth and jasmine over the graves. ==After lebaran==