Bauchi Bauchi State has been the most recent
Nigerian state to legislate civil recognition of polygamous marriages for its citizens, which was established after the implanting of Islamic
Sharia law on July 1, 2001. Polygamy among the impoverished make up a large portion of the population in Bauchi State. Polygamous unions and the large households they create contribute significantly more to child poverty than smaller monogamous households. Though polygamy and early marriages are customary, they have raised fertility rates and brought about increased poverty and insecurity. The increased fertility rates brought about by the legalisation of polygamy have overwhelmed already lacking resources. As families do not have the resources to educate their children, especially girls, these girls are married young, usually around age 12. This then fosters a cycle in which girls get married and have children young that cannot be provided for, then the daughters of those girls get sent off to get married and have children young, thus perpetuating a cycle of poverty.
Borno Polygamy is regularly practiced in
Borno State as one of the states in which it is legally permissible. It is also believed that monogamous marriages as a norm is a colonial concept, and by participating in polygamous unions, husbands and wives are battling that concept .
Gombe Polygyny is permitted under Islamic law in
Gombe, with the objective of sustaining proper social order and wellbeing in the community. However, despite Islamic law permitting up to four wives, a survey taken in Gombe in 2017 showed that the majority of men limited themselves to two wives. Despite the fact that 83% of the surveyors were married in polygynous families, only 11.6% of the men had a third wife and 3.6% of the men had a fourth. Additionally, only 13.4% of the wives agreed that their husbands treated all wives equally, which contradicts Islamic law. Moreover, 47.2% of co-wives stated remained cordial with other co-wives, citing favoritism by the husband as the source of disagreements.
Jigawa Jigawa state is governed by Sharia law, which allows a man to have more than one wife. The 2018 DHS found that 44.7% of women in Jigawa state were in polygamous unions.
Kaduna Polygamous marriage is a prevalent social structure in
Kaduna state. A survey taken in
Zaria, Kaduna in 2024 shows that communication and quality time are important to preserving a healthy relationship. They also stated that “Making joint decisions through open and respectful communication.” is important in a marriage, which may contradict other viewpoints of men as sole decision-makes. However, a large portion of conflict that takes place comes from financial constraints, with the majority of participants agreeing that their partner is not completely transparent about family finances, and how conflict can arise if spouses and children are not taken care of.
Kano A large reason for polygamy in
Kano has to do with a preference for the number or sex of children. Even though the woman does not necessarily have biological input on that, a man my take another wife in hopes that she would birth a child of a different sex. In a 2017 survey it was found that wives show a 20% higher preference for having sons than their husbands, as providing male children may lead to more marital security.
Katsina In focus group discussions taken place in
Katsina in 2011, it was found that husbands tend to split their days with co-wives evenly. However, the wives may negotiate different days between each other depending on their ovulation periods. Consequently, in a 2019 survey on marital jealousy in
Hausa Muslim women in Katsina, 26% of the respondents classed their jealousy levels as high (20%) or very high (6%). 37% of the respondents stated that their reason for jealousy was sharing a husband, and 15% of the respondents admitted to checking their husband’s phone. This is usually due to the fact that the husband spends two days each with each wife. The first wife loses the monopoly on days that she previously had, leading to jealousy. ===
Kebbi === Just post independence, a third of males reported being in a polygamous marriage and 54-60% of women reported being in polygamous unions. Marriage order was relevant, but only particularly in unions with 3-4 wives. Additionally, during this time, divorce was frequent so a woman’s position in the marriage was constantly changing. However, in a 2021 survey of female homestead farmers 62.5% of respondents reported living in households of 6-10 people and 20.8% reported living in households of 11-15 people. Most of the respondents were from polygamous households in rural areas, created in order to increase farming labour.
Sokoto Currently, just under 40% of marriages in
Sokoto state are
polygamous unions. In a study on power in polygynous marriages in Northern Nigeria, most respondents had 2 wives, and few had the 4 they were allowed to have. Most of the men (all aged over 40 and in polygynous marriages) stated that when making decisions, they may listen to their wives' input, but ultimately base all decision-making on personal preferences. When it came to time sharing, many followed a two-day rotation per wife, while others preferred a more flexible approach. The study showed that though male decision-making aimed to increase household stability, it had the potential to lead to dissatisfaction among wives, especially those feeling neglected. However, a study among monogamous and polygamous women in rural areas of Sokoto state showed no significant statistical difference in rates of depression among women in different types of marriages. Though 15.1% of the polygamous women attributed their sadness to the fact that their husbands prioritised their co-wives. Additionally, there was a 17.8% increase in women who were dissatisfied with their husbands’ taking care of their children in polygamous unions.
Zamfara After the adoption of Sharia Law in
Zamfara State in early January 2000, Zamafara State became the first state in Nigeria to allow for legal recognition of polygamous marriage under civil law, as such is practicable under Sharia, which allows for a man to take up to four wives on the account that he treats them equally.
Mahmud Shinkafi, the governor of Zamfara State, has two wives. After
Zamfara State established Sharia which brought about polygamy, numerous other states such as
Kano State soon followed suit, thereby legalizing polygamy. While the
Government of Nigeria only recognizes a
monogamous marriage under
civil law, recognizing polygamous unions with similar benefits under customary law, states that impose Sharia are not affected by such and therefore can provide polygamy for their citizens. == States where Polygamy is not legally Recognised ==