Birth and early life The birthplace of Sita is disputed. The
Sita Kund is also described as Sita's birthplace. ;Other versions • ''Janaka's biological daughter
: In Ramopkhyana
of the Mahabharata and also in Paumachariya'' of Vimala Suri, Sita has been depicted as Janaka's biological daughter. According to Rev. Fr.
Camille Bulcke, this motif that Sita was the biological daughter of Janaka, as described in
Ramopkhyana Mahabharata was based on the authentic version of
Valmiki Ramayana. Later, the story of Sita miraculously appearing in a furrow was inserted in
Valmiki Ramayana. • ''Ravana's daughter'': In
Sanghadasa's Jaina version of Ramayana, and also in
Adbhuta Ramayana, Sita, entitled
Vasudevahindi, is born as the daughter of Ravana. According to this version, astrologers predict that the first child of Vidyadhara Maya (Ravana's wife) will destroy his lineage. Thus, Ravana abandons her and orders the infant to be buried in a distant land where she is later discovered and adopted by Janaka. Her father's younger brother,
Kushadhvaja daughters
Mandavi and
Shrutakirti grew up with them in Mithila.
Marriage to Rama When Sita reached adulthood,
Janaka conducted a
svayamvara ceremony at his capital with the condition that she would marry only a prince who would possess the strength to string the
Pinaka, the bow of the deity
Shiva. Many princes attempted and failed to string the bow. During this time,
Vishvamitra had brought Rama and his brother Lakshmana to the forest for the protection of a
yajna (ritual sacrifice). Hearing about the
svayamvara, Vishvamitra asked Rama to participate in the ceremony with the consent of Janaka, who agreed to offer Sita's hand in marriage to the prince if he could fulfil the requisite task. When the bow was brought before him, Rama seized the centre of the weapon, fastened the string taut, and broke it in two in the process. Witnessing his prowess, Janaka agreed to marry his daughter to Rama and invited Dasharatha to his capital. King
Dasharatha arrived in Mithila for his son's wedding and noticed that
Lakshmana had feelings for Urmila, but according to tradition,
Bharata and Mandavi were to marry first. He then arranged for Bharata to marry Mandavi and
Shatrughna to marry Shrutakirti, allowing Lakshmana to marry Urmila. Ultimately, all four sisters married the four brothers, strengthening the alliance between the two kingdoms. A wedding ceremony was conducted under the guidance of Shatananda. During the homeward journey to Ayodhya, another avatar of Vishnu,
Parashurama, challenged Rama to combat, on the condition that he was able to string the bow of Vishnu,
Sharanga. When Rama obliged him with success, Parashurama acknowledged the former to be a form of Vishnu and departed to perform penance at the mountain Mahendra. The wedding entourage then reached Ayodhya, entering the city amid great fanfare. The Panchavati forest (in
Nashik, India) became the scene for Sita's abduction by Ravana, King of Lanka. The scene started with
Shurpanakha's love for Rama. The demoness Shurpanakha was Ravana's sister. However when Shupanakha approached Rama, he refused her stating that he was devoted to Sita. This enraged the demoness and she tried to kill Sita. Lakshmana cut Shurpanakha's nose and sent her back. Ravana, in order to take revenge for his sister decided to kidnap Sita, and made a plan.
Maricha, his uncle, disguised himself as a magnificent deer to lure Sita. Sita, attracted to its golden glow asked her husband to make it her pet. When Rama and Lakshmana went far away from the hut, Ravana kidnapped Sita, disguising himself as a mendicant. Some versions of the
Ramayana describe Sita taking refuge with the fire-god
Agni, while
Maya Sita, her illusionary double, is kidnapped by the demon-king.
Jatayu, the vulture-king, tried to protect Sita but Ravana chopped off his wings. Jatayu survived long enough to inform Rama of what had happened. Ravana took Sita back to his kingdom in Lanka and she was held as a prisoner in one of his palaces. During her captivity for a year in Lanka, Ravana expressed his desire for her; however, Sita refused his advances.
Hanuman was sent by Rama to seek Sita and eventually succeeded in discovering Sita's whereabouts. Sita gave Hanuman her jewellery and asked him to give it to her husband. Hanuman returned across the sea to Rama. Sita was finally rescued by Rama, who waged a war to defeat Ravana. Upon rescue, Rama makes Sita undergo a trial by fire to prove her chastity. In some versions of the
Ramayana, during this test the fire-god Agni appears in front of Rama and attests to Sita's purity, or hands over to him the real Sita and declares it was Maya Sita who was abducted by Ravana.
Later years and second exile In the
Uttara Kanda, following their return to Ayodhya, Rama was crowned as the king with Sita by his side. While Rama's trust and affection for Sita never wavered, it soon became evident that some people in Ayodhya could not accept Sita's long captivity under Ravana. They questioned Rama's decision, believing this example set by their king would inevitably be followed by his subjects. Rama was extremely distraught on hearing the news, but finally told Lakshmana that as a king, he had to make his citizens pleased and the purity of the queen of Ayodhya has to be above any gossip and rumour. With a heavy heart, he instructed him to take Sita to a forest outside Ayodhya and leave her there. Thus Sita was forced into exile a second time. Sita, who was pregnant, was given refuge in the hermitage of
Valmiki, where she delivered twin sons named
Kusha and
Lava. They grew up to be valiant and intelligent and were eventually united with their father. Once she had witnessed the acceptance of her children by Rama, Sita sought final refuge in the arms of her mother
Bhūmi. Hearing her plea for release from an unjust world and from a life that had rarely been happy, the Earth dramatically split open; Bhūmi appeared and took Sita away. According to the
Padma Purana, Sita's exile during her pregnancy was because of a curse during her childhood. Sita had caught a pair of divine parrots, which were from Valmiki's ashram, when she was young. The birds were talking about a story of Rama heard in
Valmiki's ashram, which intrigued Sita. She has the ability to talk with animals. The female bird was pregnant at that time. She requested Sita to let them go, but Sita only allowed her male companion to fly away, and the female parrot died because of the separation from her companion. As a result, the male bird cursed Sita that she would suffer a similar fate of being separated from her husband during pregnancy. The male bird was reborn as the washerman. == Speeches and symbolism ==